unpredictable, unpredictable, to such an extent that you can fall in love with your former
the guy. How often it happens, when we do not appreciate what we have, but we start to appreciate only when we lose it.
While you were dating this guy, you felt no more to him than sympathy or falling in love, nagged at him, found a lot of flaws, and now, when you broke up and he may be dating another girl, you realize that you fell in love with your the former guy.
You only dream about it now, remember only
good from your relationship, you hate his new girlfriend and yourself for what is not
I saw in him the man of your dreams , when you were together. And all the time you think about how you managed to fall in love with the former! Unfortunately, this is a consequence of the fact that when you met, you did not appreciate him, you saw that he was already "running" for you, that he was in love with you, and you allowed yourself to be harmful, scandalous and struggled to find fault with him . And now, having lost it, you realize that the former is the man you need.
But do not despair. This situation can be corrected by applying a maximum
efforts. And if it does not work out, then you will not blame yourself for not doing anything.
You do not have to let the situation down and suffer in silence. Much depends on how you broke up and what kind of opinion about you developed in your parting. If you
parted without scandals and quarrels with mutual insults, then there is a chance to return it.
Any relationship must be completed peacefully and civilized. Of course, it's better not to
parted, but if the relationship is hopeless, and you both understand that you are better off
to part, it is always necessary to do this calmly and without quarrels. Even if the initiator of the break is your boyfriend. Of course, this is very offensive and painful, but you do not need to turn it into a scandal and utter a lot of reproaches. Do not become a hysterical person, have pride, restrain your emotions and do not descend to insults and scandal. You do not need to make enemies. Topics
more, it is not known how this situation will develop in the future. It is possible that he will regret it and will want to revive your relationship. Perhaps you will not be against this, if you part civilized.
If you are completely normal, then you can take the first step to your reconciliation and the revival of relations. You can make an appointment with your ex-boyfriend. And do not be afraid to take the initiative. Meet him, talk to him very much
sincerely. Do not expect that he himself will guess everything, go to the contact first. Often
many wonderful relationships remain unrealized only because both the guy and the girl are both afraid of being the first to say about their feelings, are afraid to open their souls, they are afraid to be sincere.
Even if nothing happens, do not be afraid of failure. The biggest
failure - when both want the same, but both are indecisive, Perhaps yours
The former guy also wants to revive your relationship, but he's afraid to tell you about it, he's afraid of your refusal and secretly dreams that you will make the first move.
Much depends on whether he managed to start a new relationship with another girl.
Even if this is so, still find a way to speak with him sincerely. Perhaps he started a new relationship to spite you or just not to be alone, not feeling feelings for a new girl. And if it turns out that he has already fallen in love with his new girlfriend and they have a serious relationship, then you just have to step aside and not interfere with them and find a new guy.
In any case, love is a wonderful feeling, the main thing is not to give it a tragic coloring, but to rejoice in one's love, even if it is not divided. Love with your ex-boyfriend is possible if you do not sit back and suffer. It is quite
it is possible that you will be able to return it, and he will be grateful to you for your
determination. Just returning it, appreciate your relationship and do not make the same mistakes.