Having fallen in love, we sometimes lose our head and see a loved one under the prism of our own illusions, expectations and desires. Unfortunately, not all love relationships can last for years and end with a happy wedding. Sometimes it happens that this person is not at all what is needed, and it is necessary to part with him in order not to miss his real happiness. How can you understand that the relationship itself has long been obsolete and it's time to part with the guy?
1. Constant lies. If you are constantly confronted with the fact that a young person is deceiving you in something, then this is a serious reason to think about whether it is worth continuing with him. Of course, if your goal is a good pastime and easy short-term relationships, then you can somehow reconcile with the lies of a guy, after all, in fact, you do not owe anything to each other. And if you have firmly decided to get married, then think about whether you want to create a family with a person who constantly deceives you. In such a family there is unlikely to be a climate of trust.
2. The pathological greed of a man. Here the situation is twofold: if you are ready to beg for money from your future husband, even for the necessary purchases, or constantly collide with the fact that he calculates how much money was spent on lipstick or a new blouse, tragically rolling up your eyes even from a small amount, then with greedy you can be get on. If you want a man not to be stingy and give gifts, he would rejoice you, then with a greedy gentleman it would be better to leave. However, one should not confuse excessive and unjustified greed with a need for economy.
3. Insults and humiliation. This problem is much more serious than the previous two. If a young person can afford to call you, insult or humiliate in any way, then the relationship to continue with him is not. If for him you have a "butt" and the breast is not ugly, and in general, the ideal of beauty for him is Masha from the next doorway, then you should put a stop on these humiliations and send him to live with that same Masha. And better find yourself a man who will appreciate you, respect and love the way you are. Believe me, there will always be one. If you continue to live with the person who humiliates and insults you, depression, understated self-esteem and various complexes will very soon come to you and get rid of them will not be easy.
4. Assault. Here and at all without options. If a man has allowed himself to hit you, then immediately collect your things and run away from him without a glance. And it is also desirable to write a statement to the police so that the dissolved person can understand that this number will not pass with you. So many women live with their husbands, who beat and humiliate them. Poor people endlessly forgive all these antics and hope that "tomorrow will be better". And it will not be better. If a man strikes once, then the second one strikes, so the surest way to break this vicious circle is to simply leave once and for all. You can not create a family with such a person unequivocally, if the mental and physical health of you and your future children is dear to you. By the way, a very disturbing bell is if a man tries to swing his navas in the process of quarrel. It is possible that he can strike as well. Therefore, either leave him, or, while he has not yet given his hand, seriously talk with him and explain that such treatment is not allowed.
5. Treason. A man who does not skip a skirt, is unlikely to be a good husband. A single case of treason still somehow can be forgiven by the conditions of a man's complete repentance. Forgive, but do not forget. In any case, the relationship will lose its colors and the former trust will no longer be. You can try to save them, or you can just part - here every woman decides for themselves. But if you change the systematic nature and "hiking to the left" have become for your man a flatter not a norm of behavior, then it's definitely time to put a big fat point on the relationship.
6. A man is a parasite. If a man is a lazy person and a slacker, looking for any reasons, just to not work and "sit at someone's neck," then the nonsense to create a family with him and continue the relationship. A man by definition must always be the main breadwinner and "earner" in the family. Continuing the relationship with the parasite man, you risk taking on yourself completely versed. No matter how strong love is not, eventually you will get tired of such an arrangement of things, and you will simply be tired of pulling yourself all over. Therefore, you either need to re-educate a man, instilling in him independence, diligence and a sense of duty, or better to part. On your fragile shoulders should not "go" a healthy, strong and willing to support himself with a cavalier.
If there are any of the above listed signs in your relationship, then it's worthwhile to seriously think about parting. Understand that the relationship has long been wrong and it is time to leave his young man, in fact, very simple. You just need to stop for a moment in this beshenoritmme life and think: "And am I happy?". If you can not answer this question positively, then maybe parting is the best option.