Experts recommend that all music be dosed. Even the classics, which for some reason many consider innocuous, can not be listened to all the time. For example, with neuroses, migraines, insomnia and some other diseases and disorders, scientists are advised to listen to Schumann's "Dreams" and Gluck's "Melodies", which in themselves soothe. But if the future mother is already drowsy all the time, then she should not listen to such music.
But for lullabies , an exception is made from this rule. After all, what can be more natural and harmonious, close to nature than a lullaby song in my mother's performance?
So, you decided to sing a lulling song to your future little one. Perfectly! But in order for both you and the baby to get the most pleasure and benefit from a lullaby, stick to a few simple rules.
Rule one . Do not be shy about your voice. You are not at the song talent contest! Forget about the fact that sometime in childhood someone told you that you are deprived of voice and hearing. For the child there are no more beautiful sounds than the sounds of my mother's voice.
Rule two . Remember the lullabies from your childhood that your mother sang to you. Remember the melody, but forgot the words? No problem! Words are not needed. The main thing is that the baby feels your warmth and care.
The third rule . Relax and give vent to feelings! When you sing, as if through a soothing melody. Try to feel how it reacts to the carapace. You will see that if there are several such "sessions" on his part, there will be a reaction in any way - after all, he will begin to recognize familiar sounds.
Rule four . Be consistent. If you just sang a gentle, enchanting lullaby song and suddenly switched on the news on TV - there will be no sense. After listening to the lullaby, he calmed down, it was pleasant and cozy, and unexpectedly this sharp idyll was broken by sharp and loud sounds. Naturally, at this moment the baby will become uncomfortable and uncomfortable. Then she is a lullaby to finish her day. Accustom to this child from the womb.
The fifth rule . From time to time, change the repertoire. Try to sing new songs or even try to write a lullaby yourself! Believe me, there is absolutely nothing complicated in this! Just close your eyes and think about your child ... See, the words will come by themselves.
Scientists have long proven that when listening to lullabies the kid experiences very positive emotions, which favorably influences its development. In addition, thanks to the daily singing of lulling songs, in the future, when a crumb is born, you can accustom it to the regime of the day. Do not be surprised, it really is! Checked - works! If already now, in the tummy, the carapace gets used to the fact that after the lullaby it is necessary to go to sleep, then after his birth he will go to bed at the same time. Children in general are very strong conservatives, they do not like to change the usual way of life, and if the baby is used to listening to lullabies in the womb of the mother, they will certainly need him and in life outside the tummy.
But that's not the point. The most important thing is that when you are singing to your baby, he feels that you love him and that he is the dearest being for you ...