In this or that situation, there are several ways to get rid of a man or a relationship with him.
If you have a serious relationship. But, the love from your heart is gone .
In this situation there may be two ways out: either you will come to a sensible conclusion of your relations at the general negotiating table, or you will have to take responsibility for parting only for yourself.
If suddenly it turns out that your partner does not feel anything to you, the separation process will be completely painless for both of them. You can even stay friends and keep a pleasant relationship.
But, if your boyfriend loves you and he does not like the idea that you want to part, then you'll have to try. Naturally, on your part it will be foolish to offer friendship. Men by nature are owners, it is hard and painful for them to observe how a girl they still love builds new relationships. Even more painful, if in this situation, you manage to tell your former young man, and now your friend, all the details of your love stories.
Although, a man can agree to friendship, but deep down, he will bear the thought that he can return you.
If you try to explain to the guy that you do not feel anything for him because you met and fell in love with another man, then in this situation there can be absolutely other problems. Whatever it was, always initially try to go to the conversation. There is nothing better than talking frankly and frankly. Perhaps your young man, to whom you already do not feel anything, will try to understand and let you go.
If, you were tactful and frank, but your efforts did not bring the desired results - the guy does not want to listen, and he does not intend to part with you, it's worth taking drastic measures. A. namely, just disappear from his life. Collect things and get over to your parents, change your phone number. He will be hurt, he will try to find you. But be sure that such a cruel method will only benefit both you and him.
When you throw a man because you met another person - the former guy will consider you a traitor. Be ready for this.
If you part because the feelings have simply gone, then do not talk directly about this guy. Save his nerves and self-esteem. Explain that you are different and you do not have a future. But this does not mean that it is bad - you just do not fit each other for a number of reasons. Naturally, you should be prepared to explain these reasons.
If you are bored by a fan, and you do not feel anything for him .
In this situation, it's best to talk and explain the guy as it is. Same. You can talk about the fact that you can not be together, because you are so different. If the guy for every explanation finds a lot of excuses and convinces you of the opposite, that he can make you happy, but you do not think so - you can be rude.
In this situation, any methods are good, even if they are very cruel.
Remember that by offering friendship to such a fan, you will not bring anything good to him or yourself. He will still look for methods to conquer you. Courtship from other men will cause him pain and discomfort. You, however, will, to put it mildly, strain the excessive attention of your new friend.