The modern bride is more demanding and the behavior of the ideal groom is not limited to indifference to football. But, as before, the bride, blinded by love and being under the influence of uncontrolled chemical reactions, looks at the lover through the pink haze of romance and perceives the flaws of the groom as its features. Critically assess the behavior of the groom can only his future mother-in-law. She perceives her daughter as a particle of herself and wishes her, like herself, only the best and in everything. The marriage of the daughter gives the mother-in-law the opportunity to live one more family life already taking into account all mistakes. Therefore, after determining the status of a young man as a "fiancé", he falls under the watchful eye of his future mother-in-law to become the best one worthy of her daughter and wear the proud title of "perfect fiance", or at best simply "a future relative ".
Time before the wedding is a test flight, which may well end in a catastrophe due to the fault of one of the pilots or through the fault of the usual dispatcher.
Regardless of whether the future mother-in-law calls the groom her mother, she will first of all evaluate the attitude of the young man to the bride. Equally strange would be the lack of the groom's desire to express their tender feelings for the girl and too obvious a demonstration of physical attraction to her. The ideal groom should be aware not only of his duties to the bride, but also of her parents. An astute mother-in-law will notice whether the young person refers to her daughter as an independent person or whether he will suppress her personality as a tyrant and a despot, and maybe he himself will be "under the heel of the bride." In the ideal groom, both father and child should harmoniously coexist. A man should be ready to protect his "little girl", to be a reliable stone wall for her, protecting everyone from adversity, but even a strong man, like a child, needs caress and care.
Mother-in-law, like all women, dreams of remaking a man, even if he is her fiance's daughter, but in most cases a man does not want to do this under pressure and only love, even if it's a love for his mother-in-law, can encourage a man to become better, change his character traits , abandon bad habits. Compromise will add points not only in the eyes of the mother-in-law.
Just the peculiarities of the behavior of the ideal groom will be his responsible attitude to finance and his generosity. Despite the contradiction of one another, the ideal groom should be able to control his incomes and expenses, but from time to time he can afford to throw money away. If, the groom turns out to be a miser, then in personal relationships he will be dry and stingy, in the case of unrestrained and unjustified spending, the bridegroom turns out to be a man of wind and frivolity. For the mother-in-law, as for the bride, the golden mean is important.
Cheerful mood of a man, his optimistic attitude towards troubles, positive outlook on life is the key to success in business and long-term relationships with a beloved woman. To be and always remain an optimist is an important quality for a man, especially for someone who claims to be the "ideal groom". In addition, such a groom, in spite of all existing folklore, relations with his mother will not be strained and tense.
The potential spouse of a daughter should have a clear picture of the future. His words should not be at variance with the matter. The ideal groom will not give rash promises, and his views are based solely on the realities of life. For the mother-in-law, the groom's behavior should say that he knows absolutely what he wants from life, that he has a plan for the day, for a week, for a year and even for all subsequent years. The plans for the development of future spouses should be in one direction, and not run parallel to each other.
To become an ideal groom in the eyes of my mother-in-law is certainly not a priority task, such people can not exist in nature, and such suitors can not be used on the farm, but even after moving with a young wife to the other end of the world, remember that mail and telephone for advanced mother- Internet, no one canceled, mother-in-law will always be in touch.