With feeling, with sense
Do not even try to shoot faster! It's clear that you're worried about the size of your fifth point, try not to scare off your new guy with the roar of a hungry female and have no idea if he loves prostate massage clockwise or counter-clockwise. These are all important questions, however, not a reason to hurry. The first sex - a great opportunity to enjoy an indecently long prelude (when such happiness will fall to your share?), And at the same time to begin a detailed study of the new object. Carefully, unobtrusively check on it your favorite and regularly working before the tricks - just stop at the most innocuous, and sadomaso slaps and stuff, somewhat out of the way, better save it until next time. And do not forget about yourself. For example, if you belong to the camp of haters of cunnilingus, so tell him, tolerate out of courtesy - it's not sexy at all.
Do not get stuck
A new body, like any new technique, rarely becomes easy at once. Most likely, there will be awkwardness, you will have to accept this, and your dreams of perfect sex in the spirit of "99 weeks" will have to be postponed for a while. If something really funny happens (well, for example, you huddled like a hippopotamus, while grunting loudly enough), it's better not to be silent, witty comments and sincere laughter in this situation will be much more appropriate.
Bounty compliments
You were not born yesterday and have long been aware of the first sex after dating that a man is preoccupied with his pleasure only, and you know the myth from the category "if you jump after sex without a condom, then all the spermatozoa will fall off by themselves." The degree of his skill and self-confidence is measured not by his pleasure (he would have done it well without you), but yours. Therefore, even if, after sex, you still have some bewilderment, do not forget to praise him. Of course, do not weave desperate fables, for sure there were really good moments. "What you did with your tongue around my hip was wow!" or "No one has ever bitten my nipples with such an appetite!" will do. Simulating orgasm with a compliment is not considered, if suddenly you have any doubts about this.
Abstain from acrobatics
Possession of the Kamasutra is undoubtedly an equally valuable quality of an ideal woman, rather than the ability to cook a hearty supper from an ax, but it is better to reserve a demonstration for a second, third, or even a tenth sex. Firstly, it's not a fact that the strange poses that you were able to absorb with the previous boyfriend during sleepless winter nights will be just as nice to your new chosen one, and secondly, it's not a fact that he has enough stretching / strength / flexibility to you match, and this is not a bonus. Do not be shy of the classic poses.
By the way, if you noticed, the heroes of movies (if it's not German porn, of course) often prefer them, and sex from this, does not fade. If you really need to surprise him here and now, then better show him the possession of blowjob techniques - this lot always goes on hurray. And, most importantly, do not forget that the first sex is rarely when cinematographically good. Of course, if this is only a rabid passion, then it may not come to embarrassment and embarrassment, but if it's about feelings and high hopes, then "it was delicious, ah" refers rather to the fact that you had sex with him , and not at all to what mark on a ten-point scale he is worthy.
Often, during the first date, waiting for the first sex after the acquaintance, we languidly sip lattes through the tube, and flatly refuse to eat because of the obsessive thought: "But suddenly I can not eat salad so that no cracker falls from mouth, and he will hate me? " In the case of the first sex, latte does not get off - you have to rush to the embrasure with your bare chest.