Researchers at the University of Pisa, who is in Italy, found out why the passion between partners is gradually fading. It's all about hormones-neutrophils. At the beginning of the novel, their blood level is very high, but over time it decreases. And the desire also goes on the decline. However, psychologists are sure that reducing the intensity of passions does not mean that the best period in the life of the couple is already behind. Relations go to a different level, become more trusting.
You know that on your body there are "secret" points, the touch of which can cause a storm of feelings. That's just how to find them? The beloved man has already learned how to please you. He has several win-win techniques that always lead to the result. But here's what does not suit you - every time he follows the same path: first embrace and kiss, then caress the chest and stomach. It can be understood, because these are the most common erogenous zones. Your hero has already found the quickest way to please you and is afraid of experiments. But you want to know something new about your erogenous zones! How to inspire a companion in search of secret places?
Erogenous zones in some ways resemble volcanoes. There are active and "recruited from half a turn", there are "sleeping" and "dormant". Of course, there is an approximate map of the most common erogenous zones on the body of a man and a woman. But sexologists are convinced: everything is very individual. You may not even suspect that this or that touch drives you crazy until your loved one touches you at the right time and in the right way. Sometimes a man can not detect erogenous zones just because they are in non-standard places. For example, it can be knees, ankles or skin on the back between the shoulder blades (the so-called "cat's spot"). Sometimes the exciting sensations can be caused not by gentle stroking, but, on the contrary, sensitively pinching or patting. By the way, when your impudent lover slaps you on the thigh or jokingly pulls at the curl, he instinctively tries to wake up the erogenous zones. Ask him to do it in the bedroom, and not when you run past him into the kitchen to the scorching frying pan.
To persuade your friend to find magical places simply, because all men are by nature researchers. It's enough just to say: "Darling, you have not yet seen what I really can do." Let's experiment, and I'll arrange a hot night for you! " Keep in mind: pleasure zones change their sensitivity under the influence of alcohol. They may not wake up if you are tired or think of something else. For you to open a map of your erogenous zones, you should really feel like. Let in your search for points "X" your man adheres to three principles:
- Start lovemaking should be leisurely.
- During caress you need to explore both time-tested and unfamiliar places on the body.
- Do not rush to the result.
All touches must first be light and neat. Let him pet you like a big cat. And when you respond to these first touches, you can try something more intense. Allow your loved one to pass by the familiar path of preliminary caresses - but with fascinating excursions to the surroundings. He kisses you on the shoulder, so you can bend and place a seductive barrel under your lips. Who knows, suddenly it will work? Orgasm is very cool. But if you agree not to hurry, you will find out that skillful caresses lead to fantastic sensations. Do not stop caressing each other and during intimacy. Maybe to experience the most incredible ecstasy in your life, you did not have only a kiss in your ear at the right time.
You can study each other for as long as you like. Do not limit yourself in time. Both try to show imagination. Creative approach will help to make the intimate life brighter and more saturated. So, for example, the search for erogenous zones can be turned into a fascinating love game. First, try using the following techniques in the search for erogenous zones:
- You repeat all the touches and movements of your partner. That is, the loved one receives from you the same caresses that he gives to you. This is an unusually useful game, because in this way your friend not only gives you pleasure, but also involuntarily gives you all the erogenous secrets of your body.
- Agree during the foreplay to touch each other only with your lips, but in different ways: gently, firmly, with biting. The next day, change the rules: now only the hands are involved - and no kisses. The third time you have the right to caress each other anything, but not your fingers. Do you think this is impossible? But imagine how gently slips your cheek across your stomach. Such games not only help to open each other from an unexpected side, but also awaken the sleeping erogenous zones.
Strangely enough, you can find out about your most common erogenous zones in a dream. At this time, the subconscious prompts the solution of problems to the brain in the form of dreams, in particular - erotic. By the way, about 90% of men and 70% of women see erotic dreams. But unlike the representatives of the stronger sex ladies give them great importance. Just do not understand the seen image directly. So, for example, the scene of sex with a stranger does not yet speak of your debauchery. Most likely, you just feel hidden dissatisfaction with your partner - in a dream the subconscious mind replaces it with a more worthy candidate. A stormy night of passion with the former lover says only that you are trying to compare the old relationship with your new novel.
As you can see, the search for common and not very erogenous zones can turn into a fascinating love game. It is diversity that we often miss in bed with a partner.