How often do we think about why people become parents. How many people - the same number of opinions. One thing is right, every child has the right to happiness in the family. Unfortunately, today the concept of "family" has somewhat changed and adapted to the current conditions of life. What does it mean? This means that at the moment a very large number of children are brought up by one of the parents.
It is completely inappropriate to speculate on who is more important for the baby. As black and white as day and night, so the mother and father are equally necessary to the child. Mom needs a baby to feed and take care of him. And the daddy is necessary for maintenance of a family all necessary and full support in education. The family should initially be built on mutual understanding and trust. Children - the best indicators of the situation in the family. They very sensitively perceive lies or strained relations between parents.Therefore, from the very first days of life in the family, the baby should be surrounded by care and attention. Psychologists advise young people who are married, not to rush with the appearance of the first child. The family must grow stronger both psychologically and financially. The appearance of children in the family becomes an important and very joyful event. At what age become parents - this is a purely personal choice. I sincerely sympathize with those people who for some reason can not have children. And I do not support the current trend at all, propagating life without children.
After reading a few quotations on the Internet, written by supporters of childless life, I feel only pity for these people. They piss the soul. How many women in the world dream of becoming mothers! This cynicism simply kills! They do not show their unwillingness to be responsible for someone's life. Egoism in hypertrophied form, plus psychological feeding from the realization that they are not alone in their desire not to have offspring.
Describe how many people lose who deliberately deprives themselves of the joy of being parents, I would not like. But I will cite some moments of joyful contact with the world of a child's soul. Every loving parent knows what his child breathes. From the very beginning we start to learn the world through the eyes of the baby. And this joint growth brings both parents and children mutual joy and trust. We learn from each other the understanding, patience and faith that people create a family for happiness. Only this way you can build an island of joy and coziness. Contrary to the growing selfishness and indifference on the part of people who threw love from their hearts out of their hearts.
The Internet gives us information freedom, but at the same time it abounds with propaganda that destroys moral values. Communication of children with a computer should be regulated by parents. Gambling today is very widespread, not only among adolescents. It makes sense to install special filters, with which you can prevent visits to certain sites by your children. Also, you should consider the fact that constant communication in a virtual world makes your child indifferent to the real world.
It is very important today to educate our children with a sense of family and family values. Try to instill in them a sense of responsibility and high moral qualities. And no matter how banal it may sound, to prove by own example the chosen line of perception of the world. And then, what methods to educate their own children, everyone will determine himself. The main thing is that the child should be brought up with love and a sense of value for the parents.
Probably, there are no ideal methods for creating a harmoniously developed personality. Mankind itself is far from ideal. It can happen that many people who hate kids today, will happily stretch their hands to meet the child tomorrow. Let it be! However, there are things that every normal person is able to do. To benefit every day to your loved ones in order to prove your love and have the proud right to be called a family!