Any holiday can bring a mistress as a joy from a well spent evening, and turn into an unforeseen nightmare. The usual fuss, endless expenditure and long-awaited feast can and should remain in memory the most joyful event.
The organization of the holiday can help five difficult steps:
Step 1. In fact, the holiday hostess is not up to fun. Indeed, such a fact takes place. Why invite guests if, as a result of the whole event, you remain offended and unsatisfied with your efforts and time. Smart people come to the house, they have a good time, eat and drink, talk and joke. And what remains for the hostess, to run from the kitchen to the living room, along the way to pacify the roaming children, and about the miracle, if for all the fuss you did not forget to put yourself in order before the party began.
You can invite your friend to unite in the organization of the holiday. Prepare for the holiday together, distribute the preparation of meals among themselves and, accordingly, divide the costs.
But if the organization of the event falls strictly on your shoulders, then never forget that this is your holiday. Prepare the dishes that you like, without thinking about the preferences and tastes of guests. Pick up the music and come up with a program for the future evening, so that you would really enjoy it. And even more so do not make great efforts to impress invited guests with a variety of dishes and unimaginable servings.
Remember which holidays are pleasant to remember with warmth in your heart. Put aside those where you ate and drank, and remember those where it was fun, where they did not swear with her husband, did not make noise to the children and did not pretend as if they did a favor to all those present. In fact, the easier the evening that you are planning, the more good memories will remain.
Prepare simple salads for a snack, of course, main course and delicious dessert, choose drinks. And so that guests do not get bored, pick up music for the evening and a couple of fun entertainments. That's what you need for the holiday, which will be remembered by everyone, and most importantly it will give you pleasure.
Step 2. How to spend a holiday and not regret that you are not an orphan? How to make your guests are completely satisfied, last night?
Family holidays are perhaps the most difficult, because they reflect the complexity of intra-family problems. My mother-in-law will not hesitate right at the table to complain about ill health. Mom can be offended if you refuse to add dessert, over which she conjured all the previous day. Cousins can be tortured by a series of tips that they just need to take advantage of. It will not be possible to escape or hide, to survive and accept this will have to. In the desire to get good emotions do not strive to succeed, it will be much easier if this holiday is for others.
It is not necessary to condemn and try to remake relatives, and to prove anything to anyone is not necessary. They are what they are. Accept with a smile their strangeness, watch the situation from the side and never mind.
Step 3. Each holiday, regardless of the event, is accompanied by the search, purchase and packaging of various gifts. Many faced with a variety of packaging products. But the main thing is to arm yourself with a rich imagination and the necessary materials and means. In this case, you will need an adhesive tape on the office holder, holding the edges of the wrapping paper with one hand, you will be able to tear off a piece of scotch. In addition, you need scissors, which will cut paper and cardboard, stapler, because it is very convenient for binding paper and jewelry.
Do not try to create a masterpiece of packaging art, select a pair of colors. Wrap, say, a gift in green wrapping paper and tie it with a wide red ribbon. Well, the simplest and perhaps the least labor-consuming option is to buy plain cardboard packages, take out the pens and replace them with bright satin ribbons. And if you show your imagination, you can also decorate the packages with simple applications.
If you are preparing a gift for a kid, then buy a basic gift, let's say a doll. The toy itself is packed in a box. A dress, shoes and other details of the wardrobe wrap in separate bundles. The more bundles, the more interesting it will be to deploy them.
Step 4. When buying gifts, you have to show imagination. In advance, carry out reconnaissance among relatives and friends. Make a list who really wants to make a gift. Well, relatives who live in another city, it will be easier to congratulate in a telephone mode. Believe me the main thing is not a gift, but attention.
Step 5. It is impossible to foresee the future and say how everything will turn out. Stand up, smile, dress, do your hair. Imagine that everything around you breathes love, and you are in love.
Do not forget that this is your holiday.