However, in the variety of forms of sexual pleasures, there are pros and cons. If you do not know the elementary rules of behavior in bed, then sexual experiments can become an analogue of a dangerous walk through the minefield. There are several reasons for this. First, you can accidentally stumble upon the unconditional taboo of your man. Secondly, by agreeing to something new, you can damage your mental and physical health. Thirdly, there are variants of sexually-role games that lead to a decrease in sex drive or sensitivity. And then instead of diversity in bed, you can get a complete lack of desire and the inability to experience orgasm.
Playing in bed for a beloved man should not turn your life into hell and expose your precious health to a risk. How not to fall into the trap of problems by experimenting in bed? You need to know a few basic principles.
First, we need to determine the so-called acceptability range of both. It is very undesirable to go beyond it, however sad it may sound. Unfortunately, no one canceled the issues of sexual compatibility, so sometimes one should honestly admit to himself that it is not realistic to try with everything that they want with some men. Just like there is no chance to try with them what you dream about, because for them it is unacceptable.
If you do something against which the soul protests categorically, you can get a syndrome similar to the syndrome of victims of sexual violence. As a result of the appearance of this syndrome, the opportunity to get an orgasm may disappear, and in the worst case, there may be signs of vaginismus and other disorders that make sexual life impossible. So it is not necessary to do something for your beloved in bed that causes disgust and horror.
In this matter it is important to take into account the wishes of men. If he does not accept some types of sex, do not insist. This will only lead to a breakdown in the overall emotional background of the relationship and will give rise to unnecessary sexual problems.
The second important point is the need to obtain medical knowledge about the admissibility and inadmissibility of certain types of games. For example, if you decide that both want to have anal sex, then you should study all possible medical literature on this topic. It will be enough and popular articles on sexology to learn that you can not mix anal sex with vaginal without conducting hygienic procedures after anal. Also the very technique of this kind of sex implies knowledge of the foundations of safety, it is important to avoid unnecessary injuries.
The third important point is the knowledge of those types of games that can lead to serious violations of sexual health. Playing in bed for a beloved man should not turn you into a cripple, unable to desire sex. For every woman a set of games that carry the danger of serious psychological trauma is individual. But there are universal rules. For example, sexologists recommend refraining from all forms of group sex, from swinging. No matter how you persuade a man to try sex for three or exchange partners, you should not thinklessly agree. The fact that in men after the start of regular practice of group sex, the potency weakens quite rapidly. And to restore this frustration later can be very difficult and expensive, anyway, sexologists in our country are not cheap. And women can then suffer an incredible sense of guilt, which can lead to aversion to sex. In addition, often men who saw their wife or mistress in the arms of another man, complete the relationship with her, regardless of what they promised before.
Of course, in order to start experiments in the sexual field, a certain amount of courage is required. Not all men are ready at the first stages of a relationship to openly talk about their desires and ask about them a woman. And then, when the relationship is already getting pretty strong, it suddenly turns out that the interests and opportunities in sex do not strongly coincide.
In fact, in the use of sexually-role games, the pluses are much more than minuses. This is an important element of healthy sexuality for both men and women. Sexual games can not only maintain a passion in a relationship. They are able to help the couple develop relationships and bring them to a new level of existence. As a rule, many games in bed help a woman to better know her body, understand and realize her desires. And besides, they can become a source of orgasm for those women who experience certain difficulties with this.