Indeed, almost half of Europe's adult population is single and they are happy. More than 30% of europeans do not want to live with a man in a common house. They are satisfied with the role of mistress. One and happy! So after all, is this the motto of a modern woman or is it simply the reality of our life? So why do many choose solitude? The woman took place in business, she is strong and wants equal (partner) relations, afraid to be subordinate. Fear of conflict, betrayal and betrayal. She is afraid of losing herself as a person, becoming just a housekeeper, losing her attraction after giving birth. Women have a feeling that life will end after marriage.
Let's try to understand what are the reasons that determine the lonely lifestyle of modern women.
- Perhaps this, like everything in our habits and outlook on life, comes from childhood. What a family life is like for modern thirty-year-old women. They have before their eyes the life of their mothers in the Soviet era. Unsettled life, work from morning till night, running around the shops, where half-empty counters, a kitchen, checking exercise books and summer vacation with a trowel in the country. Therefore, modern women want a completely different life. They have other values - career, parties, sex, fitness, pool, etc.
- By the age of thirty, a woman who has achieved a position and usually earns more than enough. She has an established life schedule, a diet and strict observance of order in the house. And such a woman thinks sensibly that not a lot of men will survive this. Find in the metropolis of a person who will share with you your lifestyle is difficult. But let's look a little on the other side. First, modern life is very different from what our mothers had. Buy food is not a problem at any time of the day, a huge amount of household appliances, which perfectly performs the functions of both housewives and cooks. In addition, with household appliances are perfectly managed and the men themselves. Thus, when the difficulties of life are gone, it will be easy to find a person who will share your life with you. So look carefully around, and you will find someone who will appreciate your pursuit of a career.
- Another reason, pointed out by single women, is the spoiling of the male half of modern society with sex. They do not like, but make love in the evenings. And we women so want romance, beautiful courtship, checking feelings. But, alas, men stopped winning women. Yes it is, but you just need to understand that you can not play in relationships, but you have to be yourself. All women are different and each has its own character and for each one there is that man who will become your admirer. It is known that 50% of men prefer a woman to a person, not a slave.
- Remember the words from the song "it's hard for girls from high society to avoid being alone" Why? The girl graduated with a gold medal from the school and by the age of twenty-eight she has diplomas from prestigious universities, knows five languages and works in a large bank, and the same has acquired a house in the Moscow suburbs. Such a weekend girl spends in Europe and is not married at the same time. She's kind of open to relationships, but something does not line up from the princes. She feels like a princess and men see it, but not everyone can afford such a luxury. But after all, love is not a purchase of the sale of your merits, but a man who loves for real, just loves. And you start to fear and look for some reason. And then again run to work. Career is of course important, but you can not run forever from your feelings and postpone the relationship for later.
- Many girls are afraid to associate themselves with a close relationship with a partner. They are simply afraid of being abandoned, betrayed. They are afraid of losing their independence. Through their behavior they show that they do not belong to anyone, that they are free and independent. Therefore, there are quarrels, betrayals and breaking of relations. What is the reason? Perhaps the family in which the girl grew up, survived the divorce of her parents or she herself suffered an unsuccessful love in her youth, betrayal and disappointment. And that's why in relationships she tries to hold on to power without feeling. And just do not be afraid to be deceived, you just have to live, whatever happened later, regretting the missed opportunities.
- Modern women, secured and prosperous in life. They are most afraid of losing their independence. Such women always observe the distance in a relationship with a man and are forced to always prove gender equality. She herself mistress and another situation does not accept. Again, the reason for this behavior in childhood. Most likely there were very demanding parents, especially the father. And in the adult state, finding freedom, now she is afraid of losing her. She was not considered as a child, but now she does not count with anyone. In this situation, we must carefully look at ourselves, we must try to understand that the main problem is not in the people around you, but in yourself.
Yes, in modern life a woman does not seem to need a man. Financial independence allows itself and dress, and entertain. If you want sex, get a lover, you can even give birth with artificial insemination. So do you need a man? It's up to you. But we must remember that every woman, whatever she says, needs a family. So do not give up and everything will turn out! And let them say that it is difficult for girls from high society to avoid being alone!