"I love you so much, but the formalities ..."
Hovering on the wings of love, you certainly did not notice that to all the girl-friends you are telling that you are married, and he (at the same time) considers himself to be a completely free person! But still insists that you quit your job and stay at home with your common child, who for some reason is not recorded in the birth certificate of the pope?
And then this most civil husband said that you are a bunch of hair curlers, and his secretary is young, beautiful and ambitious! Well, then you realized that civil marriage - your main adventure in life, and after - thought about the question - how can you get away from a civil husband.
Leaving the civil husband is better slowly. Suddenly your civil husband intends to reduce you to a registry office, adopt a child, and arrange scandals, because at work problems? And you shook it up, and decided that he decided to break all relations. No? You definitely decided that you have nothing in common, and you are seriously determined to disperse? Try calmly and peacefully discuss this topic with your husband. He agreed with you? Then ask your husband to go to the world: he agrees to share with you living space and pay alimony to your common child? No?
Then first think about where you (and your child, if you are a mother) will live? If the civil husband has settled in your apartment and is not registered in it - to expose it with suitcases will not be difficult. If you have settled in your apartment and managed to register - you will have to sue to be discharged. Do you live in his house? Then you will have to get an advice from an experienced lawyer to determine what you and your child are entitled to in this situation, which is not the case. For example, if your civil husband is the father of your child, then through court it is really possible to prove his paternity and get alimony.
The next step is to find at least temporary housing. To rent a room from a neighbor, to move to my mother - it does not matter. For the judicial debate is not a fast one, the result of them may be a solution that is not satisfying to you. And the situation in the house can be heated to the limit.
The next moment - before a serious break, you should decide on what you and your child will live: do you have a job, do you adequately pay for your work (in terms of whether you can support yourself and the child). Is your civil husband willing to pay child support, or help you at first time? If yes - do not forget to sign all agreements by notary. Because tomorrow a young and ambitious secretary can demand from your former not only love, but also a salary. Whole. And he, blinded by a new feeling, may agree. For all. Who can support you to the first salary, if the former will refuse to help: friends, parents? Suppose a month or two of the offspring can live with his grandmother - clearly, not starving and not without a roof over his head ...
And, then, when you finally decide on the housing-work, the son or daughter will return to you. As for the work - go to the employment exchange, the Internet, to the sites sent to find work, talk with friends. And suddenly you forgot that your girlfriend is a big boss in a recruitment agency, and can find you a job?
Well, finally, deadly falling in love next time - do not forget to go to the registry office, well, or at least to the notary to make a marriage contract. You and your children born in love will be more protected from the fortuities of fate and young ambitious ladies. Well, at the same time, check the seriousness of the intentions of your faithful. Suddenly for him, a civil marriage - just a convention? Then you again have to decide ... how to get away from a civil husband.
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