After all, despite how happy you are with ease you can find someone who is more prosperous and successful.
I could observe all stages of development of envy with my friend. From someone else's joy, her mood could deteriorate, she became sarcastic and bilious, then took offense and began to look for the guilty one that someone better than herself. Most often, her husband was guilty, just because he was the closest. Despite the passage of years, her envy, like a congenital disease, could subside for a while, and then flare up again. And so from year to year.
I always felt sorry for her, because I saw and understood what she really feels. How hard it is for her to live among people. In principle, her life was developing quite well, but, apparently, it was not enough for her. I wanted more and more, but that this "still" is not, my husband is guilty. Like this.
Comparing yourself and your position with the successes of other people, analyzing this and conclusions not in your favor lead to envy of this lot of lazy losers, people who for whatever different reasons could not take place in life. They think that they were not satisfied with something, they were not appreciated, they did not notice their capabilities. Despite the desire to be richer and more successful, luckier and smarter, envious people do not move from their place, continuing to suffer the envy that consumes them. Because of what so? To achieve the previously listed, you need to constantly improve yourself. Constantly make efforts, work and achieve - in other words, do not sit still, but constantly work on yourself and deal with the difficulties that arise. Although it is much easier to go with the flow and do not change anything in life.
And what is life like for those who are envious? Naturally, to become an excuse for someone else's irritation is below average pleasure. Envious people are whispering behind their backs, yelling and gossiping, and sometimes they are dirty in the best of their abilities and abilities.
Despair should not be, let them drip poison behind you, but they envy you! Your successes, they have already appreciated them. The number of envious persons can be considered a sign of the success of your life achievements. But to deliberately demonstrate their success, it is not worth poking at them around, it's a straight path to arrogance and loneliness.
A reasonable person and knows how to be envious with intelligence. Someone will say: "How was it given to her, and I do not?" Another - one who is reasonable, will think: - "She was able to achieve, but why am I not? What am I worse? "This is called white envy, it serves as a stimulus for development and self-improvement. A person who knows how to envy white envy can openly say: "Yes, I envy, but I can achieve the same, or even more." And he will do so.
Black envy with its poison poisons your soul, and white envy helps to move on, to progress. Do not be afraid to be jealous. The main thing is to be able to do it so that you are not angry with the person who achieved success, and express his admiration. And do it from the heart.
Black and white envy is always somewhere near us and often in ourselves. One must be able to distinguish one from another and not succumb to black envy. If you're jealous, then envy white envy, and it's better not to be jealous at all, it's better to take another vertex without looking back at others.