Undo
Once in a similar situation, many admit a huge mistake-they start to put pressure on a person. They in the forehead say that the guy is bad, that he behaves badly and needs to be separated. But instead of an adequate response, they suddenly stop responding to the anger of a friend who nevertheless jealously defends her young man. In order not to quarrel with a friend, you need to learn how to properly look at things. At the moment, your girlfriend is emotional. She does not understand reality and is not particularly aware of what she is doing. Despots Ichirans perfectly know how to "brainwash." They make sure that the victims are confident in their wrongness, weakness and so on. But they put themselves in their eyes on a pedestal. That is, at the moment, your girlfriend thinks her boyfriend is king. She is confident in the correctness of every word he says and the decision he has taken. His despotic habits, she perceives as a normal reaction to our failures, which, it seems to her, are just the sea. Therefore, if you start criticizing her young person and directly pointing out who he is in fact, for your girlfriend it becomes a real stress and brainwaves truthful information. She is so wound up by her despotic guy that every word against him is perceived as a personal insult. Your girlfriend really loves her young man very much, she just does not want to see the truth. And if you really want to help her, never take this tactic.
Pravda-uterus can be cut to those people who are in adequate condition. Unfortunately, your girlfriend is now inadequate. Her boyfriend thinks and talks about her. And if she sees in you an enemy for her boyfriend, then automatically you will become their enemy to her. Even if you were friends for about four months, for her it does not mean anything. At the moment, she is not the person you knew. Remember that the despots always try to turn their soul mate into the ideal person they once thought of. And more tyrants wish that such a woman belonged only to them, because because of their internal complexes they are afraid to lose it. So it is possible, the despot already sets up a friend against you and if you behave inadvertently, you can simply lose it. Therefore, instead of direct conversations, it is better to use another tactic, which will help the girl to open her eyes to real events.
A real man
In order for your friend to realize who she meets with, she needs to create conditions in which she will see the difference between her despotic couples and a real, normal man. To your friend began to understand what is happening, it must be surrounded precisely by such men. Naturally, it is necessary to do this as if by chance and at ease. If she suspects you that you are engaged in pimping, then there is no conflict. The girl can calmly tell about the whole guy, because in this state, half of the tyrants usually report to them about everything, and he will make his conclusions and convince her that you are a bad friend and try to prevent her from being a part. Therefore, it is necessary to act very carelessly. Just try zvatee in the company, where there are adequate guys. You can tell your friends about what's happening to your girlfriend and ask them to help. You can say nothing if you are not sure of the correctness of such a decision. The main thing is that these young people were really good and interesting, that is, with such speedy your girlfriend would want to spend time, even despite the state of zombie. The fact is that when a person gets acquainted with new people who are really interesting to him, no brainwashing can not establish the desire to communicate, because even in this state, your girlfriend is equally left in the depths of the soul by that person whom she was before her acquaintance by a fellow despot . You just need to push it to the memories and get at least a little bit of analysis. Only you should immediately warn: guys should not behave. They must act as they always do. That is, people can criticize and express their own opinion, which does not agree with your friend's opinion. Well, when these men are a new acquaintance for the girl, as the opinion of close people, she can question, but new friends always seem more just and really looking at things.
Do not forget that your goal is not pandering. You do not have to make a girlfriend fall in love with one of your friends. The goal for you is another - to show that these guys are much better than her tyrant. In the depths of the soul, a woman is very painful and offensive from such behavior, but they are afraid to say this out loud, because they are sure of their wrongness. They think that they are stupid and every normal man treats himself with them as well as their boyfriend. But if such a girl will have enough time to be in the company of adequate men who respect her opinion, treat her like a man, and not as a slave, give her all the time and always the right to choose, then in due course the girl will begin to realize that there are things happening in love relationships, then not that. And at this moment onachot partially get rid of zombification, starting to analyze, compare and compare. As a result, in almost ninety-nine cases, out of a hundred uzhenshchin, the eyes open and they tear up the wrong and painful relationships, and then thank friends-friends for not letting them go.