As it sounds sad, but every third woman had to face the betrayal of a beloved man. Women react to cheating in different ways: someone forgives a loved one, someone does not forgive, and then regrets it, someone does not attach any importance to it. How to forgive and forget the betrayal of her husband? And can it be done at all?
What is the cause of male treason?
Usually, male treason is a signal that things are not going smoothly in your relationship.
2. Men start to change when feelings cool down and old love passes.
3. Also, men change when they get tired of home problems or when things are too good at home.
4. And some men change simply because by their nature they are ladies' men. And it's impossible to fix it. There is only one way out: either accept it or leave it.
5. But the main reason for male change is the lack of trust and support in a relationship. In this case, the mistress becomes a friend and an interlocutor for the man, who understands and accepts it with all the shortcomings.
In which cases can you forgive treason?
Before you forgive, think about whether you, knowing about treason, will be able to continue to live. To forgive is to forget and not to hold grudges. Of course, this will not be easy.
- If a man carefully conceals from you his love affairs on the side, it means that he needs you. In this case, you can forgive treason. If the husband is still interested in you, and you feel the warmth and closeness between you, then most likely you are just tired of each other.
- For the sake of children, too, is to forgive the traitor. Of course, this option is not suitable for everyone, especially if the husband constantly changes and does not tolerate the strength.
- Forgiveness can be forgiven even if the traitor reciprocates, feels guilty and tries to establish relations. Of course, he will have to earn his pardon. A small parting, for example for 2 months, will be a good educational measure. You will have time to think carefully about the situation and make a decision. Your man does not lose time in vain and continues to walk? Then everything is clear. But if it seeks to return you, then be impregnable for a couple of months. In no case do not show your hurt and hurt. Let him think that you are happy, having got rid of the traitor. Most likely, the traitor will repent, and you will begin a new life.
- A man has changed you only once after a family scandal, or being drunk. Then you can close your eyes to this situation. But in any case, the fact of treason is unpleasant and undermines the credibility of a loved one.
When you do not need to forgive men's betrayal?
Is it easy to forgive betrayal to a person whom you love madly, even if life without it does not make sense? The man betrayed you. It is especially unpleasant if a man changes and at the same time keeps telling you about love and swears fidelity.
Is it necessary to forgive betrayal if a man has ceased to value relationships with you and feels great without you? Of course, to continue such a relationship is not worth it. You may be able to forgive, but you can not return the old relationship. Betrayal ruins trust and respect. And then there can be no question of love.
Decided not to forgive treason? In this case, do everything so that a man does not know about your experiences. Before parting, you can say such a thing, so that life does not seem to him now. Say that he never loved him, always dreamed of breaking off the relationship, and he just brought the moment of separation. Treason is a fat point in a relationship, after which there is nothing.
What exactly is not worth doing.
To follow her husband and mistress, to humble oneself, cry, ask to get thoughtful and return, try to please, to inform all relatives and girlfriends is not necessary. It's hard for you, but be proud and do not lose dignity! Do not tell anyone that your husband has changed you, because most of the people around will only laugh at you!
Perhaps you will reconcile with your husband. Imagine how people will look at you, knowing the piquant details of your personal life!
Do not ask the traitor about his mistress and relations with her. Having learned all the details, you will be even more upset.
Perhaps you will reconcile with your husband. Imagine how people will look at you, knowing the piquant details of your personal life!
Do not ask the traitor about his mistress and relations with her. Having learned all the details, you will be even more upset.
How to survive a man's betrayal?
First, be brave, be patient and discuss the situation with your husband alone. Do not interrupt his explanation, think about where you made a mistake. But this does not mean that you are ready to forgive all his adventures!
Practice shows that a woman can forgive treason, but do not forget. And during regular quarrels from insult there will always be a desire to reproach her husband.
And one more question remains open. How to establish sexual relations? Usually a woman either tries to prove to her husband that he was wrong, and surpass himself in sex. And some people on the contrary constantly feel the presence of a mistress in bed, they are locked in themselves. Sex becomes a burden to them.
In general, try to constantly attract the attention of men. Watch your appearance and clothes, listen to him when he comes home from work, smile more often, create a cozy home, please your man with delicious food and let him know that you love him very much.