And how can she demonstrate this, if not with the help of a compliment. It's not for nothing that there is a saying that a woman loves ears.
Every woman is inclined to feel sympathy for the one who praised her for something, then with the help of a compliment one can even get a location to herself. But not all men know how to properly compliment a woman.
How to guess what a woman wants to hear? And you put yourself in her place-what would you like to hear? Although, of course, a win-win option is a compliment about appearance, because every woman wants to look good, so tell her about it!
Do not compliment when you need something. A woman immediately recognizes your self-interest. It's terrible to hear: "You look wonderful today, would you not have made a report to me?" Therefore, say compliments simply for the sake of the woman herself and as often as possible.
Unfortunately, only in hot countries the ability to make compliments of a man is absorbed with the mother's milk. To do something for the first time is always scary, we attach great importance to the ordinary event and take it too seriously. The fear of saying a compliment comes from uncertainty. Many people want to hear in response not just "thank you", but a list of their merits. But do not need to focus on this event much attention. If you do not have enough experience, refer to the first compliment as a simple greeting or start making compliments tet-a-tet, without unnecessary witnesses. The woman will not be so demanding and will forgive you a small oversight. Well, if you are confident in yourself and the master of compliments, then in the presence of other people your compliment will make even more impression.
Find an occasion for a compliment can always be: because in every person there is something good. Smile, eyes, hands, handbag, hair, yes, anything. Well, tell a woman about this! But do not focus on the subject; do not need to say: "What a beautiful handbag you have." It will be much better if you emphasize: "How do you go this handbag." After all, a lot of handbags, but she with such a purse-one!
It's not bad to specify the compliments, then they sound much more sincere, individual. After the general phrase, add a turn "because". "Today you look wonderful, because ..." And a woman will immediately understand that her new hairdo (hat, handbag, etc.) has not remained unnoticed. Any compliment can be strengthened by adding an adjective "what." "What a wonderful bag you have" The same effect can be achieved by adding the words "very" and "most".
Before you say a compliment, make sure that you are listened to. In this case, be sure to look into the eyes. A woman should understand that this compliment is only for her. Great value can play appeal by name. The response to the name occurs at the reflex level and the probability of being heard increases.
Pay attention to intonation and facial expressions. A smile is needed, but in moderation. Too open will look like irony. Do not build a long phrase, try to keep within a couple of phrases. If you are keen on building a compliment, then you risk being misunderstood, besides it is not a congratulation. A sense of proportion must always be there. Do not be intrusive. There is nothing worse when a man burns dubious compliments to a woman or where an answer is implied. You do not need to press the woman against the wall and monotonously list her virtues: this will only cause a negative.
Be careful that the compliment does not turn into flattery , otherwise it will already be a parody. And women quickly catch this line, because their sense of proportion is much better developed. And then you can be considered a gallant man, and a sycophant and trust you will not be. If a woman has some flaw, you do not need to try to say anything about this defect, it's much more appropriate not to notice it.
Beware of words-parasites, such as "ee", "well." It looks as if you either do not know what to say, or you are afraid that it will not add to your sympathy.
Always pay attention to intonation, speak in a benevolent tone. But there is no need to curry favor, and all the more inappropriate is bantering, this is allowed only between friends, which is entirely from a different area of ​​relations.
Do not be trivial , something that the girl has heard many times, is unlikely to interest her. Think of some original compliment. Maybe you noticed something that even she does not know yet, some of her merits. In the end, praise her ability to dress, because her style of clothing, she came up with herself. Going somewhere, every girl puts on make-up so that to emphasize some of its zest. And you only need to notice this, just a little attention. For example, a win-win option is to say that the color of the handbag matches with shoes or lipstick with a varnish on the nails. And then the girl will not only pay attention to your compliment, but, conversely, she will say that you have a taste.
It is unmistakable to make a compliment in the form of suggestion, saying that the girl has a magical power and draws men to her. It's important not to overdo it, because if she catches falsity, all the previous compliments for the girl will simply depreciate. But if a man sees in his girlfriend a goddess, then he does not curse the soul and will be persuasive.
But, attention, if for some reason you have a bad relationship with a woman, then compliments are appropriate only at some general events, presentations, etc. In that case, just be polite and see how it will fit into itself.
Thus, every man needs to know how to properly compliment women. But do not forget that all the ladies are different and unique, that's why the compliments should be original for every woman and to the place. Do a compliment from the heart, do not put it as a goal, do not count the benefits. We do not know how to develop our life further, perhaps the woman you have complimented with in the morning, something will help you in the future. Believe that sooner or later, but good returns.