Judging by the love of a man to a naked female body, he does not care what is put on us. Rather, it was dressed. But why then all of our fashionable clothes, cosmetics and other tricks, if so simple to cause a desire, revealing a piece of the body?
Men, maybe, animals, but not so much that if you show them the decollete, then you can do whatever you want. This is still an overly primitive view of male sexuality. Nobody considers a nudist beach a place of great erotic power, is not it? And all because you need intrigue, but there it is not - everything is open, look - I do not want. This is only for monkeys and rabbits - came, saw, wanted. A woman and even more need more sophisticated means of seduction. So, where does he have that same button - this is still a big question.
There is a huge number of stereotypes that women took on themselves in the struggle for men's attention. Let's consider some of them.
1. Strength - in pheromones?
Our stereotype : Magic pheromones! No man can stand before them!
His answer : Even as you stand!
Male butterfly, feeling the female a mile away, flies on a date, not feeling the wings and antennae. But, fortunately or unfortunately, men are not butterflies, and obey the call of sexual attractants is not so unconditionally. And in perfumery, to admit, they are not so choosy. The main thing is that "it does not smell bad." While they (the men) sniff out the situation, we (the women) are already very clear: whether we like the interlocutor or not. Therefore, it is not necessary to adopt the well-known phrase Marilyn Monroe: "At night, only Chanel No.5 drops on me" - this is just a clue how to include your own feelings and seduce a man, no more.
2. Meet on clothes?
Our stereotype : Clothes should be such that the man noticed it!
His answer : To begin with, probably yes.
But the point here is not in brightness or frankness, but in the effect of surprise and novelty. If the same woman every time is slightly different, their orienting reflex makes a stand, looks at the translucent and sliding, listens to the tinkling and rustling. From these sounds and pictures his imagination immediately draws a picture. Now the main thing is that his eyes linger for at least a couple of seconds. If this happened, then he had a desire. It's another matter whether he wants to realize this desire.
3. Does makeup attract men's attention?
Our stereotype : Bright cosmetics - the key to success!
His answer : Not the most reliable option
Bright lips and nails - certainly attractive and sexy. However, men terribly do not like "combat color". In everything, a measure is needed, especially in tattoos and piercings. Do not boast of an abundance of earrings or tattoos. Let the shoulder strap slip off the shoulder deliberately, showing a piece of tattoo, and the piercing in the language will accidentally flash. Let the man be a hunter, let him think that he is catching you on a hook, and not you. This is very important - not to frighten off the "booty" at the very beginning, but later the man will be interested to know what is decorated and where it is punctured.
They say that we, women, spend three whole years only on priests. Whether this helps in hunting for men is not known in detail. One thing is well known: since we are in full ammunition, it means that we look good and, therefore, are confident. So it or not, judge you.
4. The main thing is to say pleasant things?
Our stereotype : And talk? Loving with the ears is purely feminine
His answer : Oh, yes.
Here it is - the secret weapon of an experienced seducer - sweet speeches. We mistakenly believe that compliments are a purely female privilege! No man can resist a competent female compliment. It is only necessary to choose the indisputable merit of the interlocutor and to praise him with all the femininity that is inherent in us . The main thing in this matter is not to bend the stick, do not overdo it with flattery. Start and fire with your eyes, and the tenderness of your voice and your whole body. Let the man feel that you really admire him. Better yet, if your praise is visible. A man loves his eyes, so let him not only hear your compliments, but he sees them. How exactly? Do not cross your arms on your chest, do not point the socks of shoes at him - this is a sign of hostility, dislike and aggression. Be feminine and relaxed.
5. Can you seduce a man with a voice?
Our stereotype : A low voice with a hoarse voice in a woman is a wonderful weapon for seduction.
His answer : Not really.
Do not forget that a woman - a tender, fragile and vulnerable creature. A man should want you just as a woman, and not as a lust. You do not have to break your voice to achieve the desired sexual timbre, just learn how to "properly" talk. In general, it is useful to talk with a partner. Everything: about cinema and football, about figure skating and music. The main thing is to talk with sensual intonation and on "constant subtext". This psychological device acts like a forbidden 25th shot: it is not seen, not heard, but it is with its help that they achieve their goals. Let the man feel your mood. Such tactics will help to carve a spark between long-standing lovers, and between the potential is surely kindled by fire.