Mistrust of doctors aroused excessive gullibility
As in many cases, young mothers, visiting a pediatrician, refer to him, as well as to many situations in life, or do not trust the words and diagnoses at all, or believe everything in a row, because it was recommended by friends or relatives. If doctors are completely distrustful, then, of course, they will be visited only if there is a strong need or a vaccination. In this case, mamamolcha leaves her head on all the recommendations, and what the child's doctor prescribed is simply ignored, without doing anything. It is good, if such mother is still in paid honey. centers.
Strange in our people's position: from their own pays a medical policy, the state settled in the legislation of the right, for which we have the opportunity to receive free treatment. And the doctor's appointment is like a war, and the doctor is naturally an enemy in this war. In this issue there must be a solution, you just need to carefully understand.
Do not be silent, ask
If you visited a doctor with a routine examination, without illness, and in the process of examining and diagnosing the doctor writes very terrible and vobshcheponyonyatnye words on the card, such as: the delay of motor development or dysplasia, puts the baby diagnosed with scoliosis and so on. You need not to be silent, agreeing, ask the doctor for a detailed interpretation of everything that he says, you are a mother, and you have a full right to know everything that concerns your child's health. If you do not say anything, then go out with questions stuffed with questions, go to girlfriends, grandmothers and online forums, where you get a lot of empty and downloading information.
Ask a doctor not only about the illness and how to treat it, but it is extremely important to learn how to walk with a child, how he needs to rest, the official development. Also it is worth to learn about bathing and visiting schools or kindergartens, any questions you are interested in.
In addition to human, the normal attitude of the doctor to the questions of the parents, to which he must respond, there is another side. This is an official document, adopted by the legislation of the Russian Federation, on health protection. In this document, the rules for communicating with citizens at the reception are prescribed, the document was adopted in 1993. More precisely, you can get information about it by reading the document, you can find it on the network.
Section 6 accurately describes all the rights of citizens who are in possession of medical care. It is especially important that in Article 31 it is stated that the patient has the full right to a true idea of the state of health. Here it is slightly further stated that a citizen has the right to take a card in his hands to read her records, in addition, you can request certain extracts from the card, If a question arises, you need to give an explanation. It is also said about the normality with patients, about courtesy and respect, more in article 30.
Here are some correct phrases that will help you to competently consult a doctor:
- doctor, I am very worried about this, if not difficult, tell a little more about the disease;
- Please tell us more about the problem;
- I'm sorry that I'm wasting your time, but I do not understand, you could not explain this moment.
In this case, you politely and with a detailed question refer to the doctor, you have every right to rely on help and comprehensive information.
It is worth paying attention to the moment that the doctor silently inspects, absolutely not interested in you behavior of the child at home, his complaints and your observations, ie. just fixes your results and everything. This is fundamentally wrong, especially if you have applied a related disease. In addition, the doctor can not get the correct idea about the development and capabilities of the child, at least because the baby can be ashamed or afraid to show himself as he is, and this is normal.
Take into account the following tips:
- before going to a doctor for illness or for an examination, be sure to observe the behavior of the child, what you do not like or worry about. This will help you intelligently to explain to the doctor that you have noticed the worrying you or how the disease manifests, it is desirable to have subtle descriptions, rather than a common symptom;
- if you came with a baby because of ailment, then kindly write in detail everything that is noted and a complete list of symptoms: temperature, vomiting, coughing or abdominal pain, runny nose or some unusual symptom;
- especially carefully and in detail it is necessary to explain, if you have chosen with problems of behavior or development. First you need to start with good moments, this will indicate your observation. Also, this will allow the doctor to prescribe and prescribe treatment taking into account the full information so as not to disrupt the positive developmental moments;
- you know how to ask questions at the right time, you do not have to ask a question that you have forgotten while standing with the doors already open. This is a serious attitude and the answer you will most likely get is the same surface or you will even be invited to the next visit.
This is from the category of correct and compulsory communication with a doctor.
If there are doubts and lack of understanding
Often, moms miss important moments in the health of the child, just because they were too shy to ask a question about questionable observation:
- often mothers in communication with friends, and even more often just information taken from the forums of young mothers, will hear all sorts of passions that they want to look out for from their child. In the end, and ask somehow awkward and even scary, but the doctor, as luck would not say anything about it. This is exactly what you need not be afraid of, it is better to ask a direct question and get a direct answer that the misunderstanding or the doctor will send to the competent specialist;
- if you still have serious concerns, and the doctor says that everything is in order, then ask him to argue or show it directly to your baby. A simple example, if you think that the child does not stop looking at the subject. If the doctor is sure that this is not the case, let him prove it by conducting a test.
Apply for explanations to other doctors
- it happens that nothing can change the opinion of the mother of an ovary or his diagnoses do not suit you. Leave the question, of course, you can not, so do not hesitate to contact another doctor, you can do it in a different clinic or you can contact a specialist of a narrow profile. Under the law, on the basis of Article 30, you have the right to collect a consultation at all or to insist on an examination by another specialist. If you are really worried about something, it is the opinion of several doctors;
- if you need, for example, to contact other health facilities, then you can demand an extract of the disease, moreover, you can request a photocopy of the history, along with analyzes, conclusions and everything to be done.
There is such an important moment with the drugs. After receiving the prescription of the drug, his mother buys it, but after reading the sheet and not finding there an extract that it can be taken to a child of her age, sends him to the trash can, the foal does not take anything at all. The fact is that doctors are guided by more accurate sources, for example, this drug has been tested many times and it helps, without consequences. The abstract is silent because the introduction of any changes is so complicated and time-consuming, with obtaining all the permissions that the pharmaceutical companies simply do not do. That's why you should rely on the opinion of the treating pediatrician.
If your rights are violated
- do not immediately rush into battle, just politely remind the rims with reference to a specific document. Often after this comes the moment of admonishment. Also, do not talk on elevated tones, however, you do not need to cry either, inadequate behavior will then be used against you;
- in the event that such measures did not help, write the statement of the chief physician honey. institution, with a detailed indication of the cause;
- You can also contact your insurer, who issued the MHI policy, or to the health department, right up to the prosecutor's office, then looking at the consequences;
- when you write complaints, be sure to note that you are notified about what measures were taken. It will be more correct to write individual letters with a request to all organizations to which honey belongs. institution. It is also worth noting that the plaintiff's document is not sent to the authority, which for whatever reasons is interested in concealing this problem.
Diagnoses in the forums
In the end, you need to be a realist, the child needs the help of a medical professional, and not in those people who sit on the forum and the bouncers take part in the chatter. There are many examples when mothers were treating online children, the results were very severe, even to the point of death.
The forums are sitting at the best of the same do not understand the people, like you, so listening to their advice and apply on your child, it is unreasonable. You can meet the recommendations of different clinics, nevertheless, it will be irresponsible advertising, an attempt to raise the rating on the forum and all.
And most of the messages are simply biased or customized, so beware of treatment on the forums, one thing to read for thought, another to deal with based on the empty words of your child.