By and large, since a long time, there is little that has changed in the way of concepts that make relations ideal. The totality of the facts influencing the perfection of the relationship between a man and a woman is the same as in the days of our parents' youth, and even earlier ancestors. Consider the components of this concept in more detail.
The first is feelings
Even in our age of advanced technology, nothing has changed on the emotional front. It is love that is still the main component of the relationship between two people, all the rest is only a consequence of it arising. If there is mutual love between a man and a woman, this is the first step, so that their relationship is ideal.
Look around, look at your relatives, friends and friends, whose relationship seems to you worthy of imitation and think that lies at the base of such perfection? The answer is definitely love. Looking at the pairs that are ideal in our eyes, we involuntarily begin to transfer something from them to our relations, something that seems to us necessary and essential, something that allows our own relations to be considered as ideal. There is no illusion, that we take something good from others, because people learn not only on mistakes. By adapting someone's behavior to ourselves, we ourselves become better, and let others take something good from themselves.
The second is honesty and insincerity
One of the most important aspects on which to build a normal, healthy relationship is the ability not to inflate conflict situations in an empty place. It is clear that even if the two love each other, they remain two personalities, each with their own eyes on life, with their rules, principles, problems and mood swings. One of the main abilities of an ideal couple is the ability to bypass sharp angles and compromise, and this should to look natural, and not as if one makes a friend a favor or indulgence. There is no relationship without quarrels, but better try to minimize them through conversations and communication.
If, after all, it happened that the emotions took up, even the people with perfect relations, they will not allow anyone to become a witness of their differences. There are couples whose clarification of the relationship occurs regardless of the place, time and number of people around, but hardly any of the people around will consider their relationship a standard. A couple in which the partners under no circumstances will allow themselves to humiliate one another, and even more so when someone - causes more warm feelings. So, if you are striving for excellence, try to make sure that neither your own nor anyone else knows about your disagreements or discontent.
This does not mean that if something does not suit you in your partner's behavior, or in his statements you need to keep silent every time, accumulating a negative, which sooner or later will break out. Talk with each other, discuss those moments that seem wrong to you, and masterfully learn to forgive each other minor insults.
Third - different interests and interests
For an ideal couple, it is not a problem that one person likes one thing and another does something different. The problem arises when one does not care what the other thinks and does not care about what. Two people, should be aware of each other's interests, should be able to listen and support conversations to a film or book that is perhaps not particularly interesting to one, but has made an unimpressive impression on the other.
Fourth-joint pastime
Two lovers try to spend as much time as possible together. They will not go separately on vacation apart from each other, they will not go one by one to the cinema or the theater.
In our time, it is very difficult for two of them to combine free time, each work on which one spends most of the time, and the second one works all weekend. But this should not be the reason why you can not celebrate the day of acquaintance, the wedding day and other important for your fellow-parents.
Try to cope with everyday matters together, take together or cook, or go to the store to stock up on groceries.