How can a guy lose his virginity?
It's not a secret for anyone that our emotional state is controlled by hormones. Especially it concerns communication with an attractive person. Therefore, before you start studying his body before, during and after sex, it is worth considering that the boy's virginity is not a physiological factor, but a psycho-emotional one. It is foolish to believe that after the first sex in the male sexual system, there will be some change, as it happens in women with defloration. No, everything remains in place. But feelings and thoughts are experiencing a radical restructuring.
Of course, this is the becoming of a man, his self-affirmation in the role of a male capable of satisfying himself. Yes, and according to most guys, real sex with a woman in many ways surpasses masturbation in proud solitude.
It is generally believed that a virgin guy loses only when he was able to successfully complete the sexual act followed by ejaculation. Even if penetration into the partner occurred, but the case, for whatever reasons, was not brought to the end - the guy still remains a virgin.
How to determine the virginity of a guy and how to behave to a girl?
Do not wait for the young inexperienced guy to wake up in bed. If you have feelings for him, your task is to help cope with emotion and emotions. Do not be offended if immediately before sex, he will lose an erection and he will not be able to satisfy you. On the contrary, this is one of the proofs that you are deeply sympathetic to him or he is in love at all. If such an incident happened, do not make scenes, take offense or think that the partner has problems with potency. Better help him adjust to the right way: calm down, hug and kiss, try manual stimulation or easy flirting.
A loving and understanding girl, before depriving the guy of virginity, in advance will take care of a cozy place where there will be soft muffled light, comfortable temperature, comfortable and soft bed. It is not necessary to attach excessive importance and officiality to this event. You can include light relaxing music that will relieve emotional stress. Offer to drink your partner a glass of sweet wine or liquor. Give vent to emotions and your bodies.
We hope that our article helped you to understand what the virginity of a guy is and how to help him lose her. Treat your young man with understanding and without ridicule.