How to properly engage in oral sex

At all times, the attitude toward such a rather ambiguous phenomenon as oral sex was controversial. Supporters of this kind of caresses say that the sensations of this kind of sex can not be compared with anything else. Opponents, however, argue that oral sex is obscene and immoral. Nevertheless, this phenomenon existed, exists, and, most likely, will continue to exist.

How to properly engage in oral sex? This question, most likely, was asked by everyone who first encountered this kind of intimate caresses. In how exactly to engage in oral sex, there are no specific rules, because each person is unique - some give pleasure to one, some to another.

Knowing how to properly engage in oral sex will be useful to women, even if they have not yet met such wishes from their sexual partners. It would be wrong to think that it is very simple to make pleasure with this type of sex, and also to consider that a woman in any case knows better how to caress a man orally, especially if she did not do it before.

In any case, to engage in oral sex, first of all it is necessary to love to do it, and not to overpower and force yourself only because your partner persuades or forces you. Any intimate intercourse should be an act of mutual understanding and love, well, or it should be sought.

It is unlikely that one of the men will allow an unfamiliar woman to get close to the most "intimate", that only he has, then he will close his eyes and give control to her. On the contrary, most likely the man will try to manage the whole process, so that everything will go in the right way. And this is more a plus, since in this case, after several times under the guidance of a man, even the most inexperienced partner learn how to give him pleasure in the oral way. Also, monitoring the process of oral sex itself allows for additional stimulation.

How to engage in oral sex

First, it's the most important thing - do not allow monotony! Like the usual sex, the oral will also deliver much more pleasure if the caresses are diverse. All touch and affection before the immediate act should be easy and gentle - thanks to this the excitement will be much stronger. When a woman plays, teases and inflames desire - her partner reaches the peak of pleasure. By the way, the increased sucking of the partner's penis may not give the same excitement as the light kisses and gentle touches of the tongue and lips. Touching the head of the penis, sliding the tongue along it, caressing the edging of the head - all these actions can lead a man to the peak of bliss. It should also be borne in mind that you do not have to try to do everything that the actresses of the respective kind of movies do during such sex, as it must be remembered that in these films all the more often is greatly exaggerated and careless sharp movements can lead either to loss of erection, or to an overly quick orgasm, which is also not very good.

One of the most favored poses for men is that in which the woman kneels during the act. Among women, it is widely believed that a man wants to offend, to "belittle" a woman. However, this is not so - in fact, in this position, the man is the easiest to control the process and watch the seductive view. The disadvantage of the pose is that your legs get tired very quickly, so it's best to lie down or sit down, and the woman should be located on her hands or knees between her legs. This pose excites a man much stronger, because he can see how seductively sway his partner's buttocks. This position is beneficial to a woman because she can control the rhythm of penetration, its depth and rhythm. Very often such a pose gradually passes from partners to the well-known position 69, which enables partners to simultaneously caress each other by the oral method.