The word "opposite" means "located opposite", that is, another, unlike. And if men and women are considered the opposite sex, it is not surprising that the world perceives, and behave, and love in different ways. Not we noticed that a man believes when he sees, and a woman - when he hears. But how then is the wisdom of generations expressed in the conclusion: "it is better to see once than hear a hundred times"?
The Kazakh proverb also echoed it, which reads: "Ears are ready to take everything for granted, eyes do not imitate their example." And Sari Gabor argues that the man loves the eyes, and the woman with the ears. And what? What does this mean if you follow the logic? That a woman is much easier to deceive, because she trusts the ears more than the eyes? Alas, to a large extent this is so.
A loving woman from nowhere comes an unpleasant feature - she loses the ability to believe what she sees, if she does not want to believe it. But I am ready to believe any lie from the lips of my beloved, only to not be disappointed in it. The most important mistake of a loving woman is to erect a pedestal, put a darling on him, stand side by side, admire and try with all his might to keep him on this pedestal. A man can behave in this as you like, trick, change, but do not forget to whisper in the ears of your favorite words of affection and tenderness, assuring her of your love. And she will listen and believe. To every word. Any deception. If only the fragile world of her illusory happiness would not crumble or break.
And it can be destroyed by notorious well-wishers - neighbors, colleagues, just gossips or envious persons. Because for denunciations, slander and gossip, ears are also needed. Maybe that's why they are created and distributed, and mostly women listen.
A man is much harder to impress with something by talking. And if he saw something himself, then it is impossible to convince him otherwise. Why the words, he saw everything himself!
People know each other's weaknesses too well and many use them impudently. Almost any woman can be achieved, speaking, speaking, telling her beautiful words. Every now and then he says that he loves her, that life without it does not make sense, that he has been looking for her for so many years and finally found ... Every woman sooner or later gives up and starts to believe it. And he continues to believe, even when a man achieves his goal and loses interest in it, his words remain just words, completely not confirmed by actions. But the woman already fell in love with the illusion, gave her chosen one the ideal qualities of the image she dreamed about, and she has no doubt that she is desired and loved. The very need to be loved, to hear from a lover the stream of beautiful words makes her believe in what was not and is not.
A woman in love is happy, and this happiness plays a cruel joke with her. She forgets that the person should be judged not by words, but by deeds. And if a loved one just rant, do not lift a finger to help, support, do something for her or in her place, it already says a lot. It is interesting that when asked what evidence a woman can love her, the woman may lead, the latter usually with indignation responds: "Love does not need to be proved! You just need to believe! "But are these arguments? Men in this regard are far more far-sighted, although they sometimes act cynically.
An excellent example is a popular song not so long ago about a young man who went into the army and decided to check how strong his girlfriend's love is. He wrote a letter in which he reported that he had burned his face and broke his legs, and asked her to come and take him home. But the beloved replied that there was no longer any love, and asked to forget her. When the boy had served and returned, the girl joyfully met and tried to hug, but met a relentless refusal. And that's all. No more words were needed - the action was all for myself. It's telling, is not it?
Here we are different - strong in one and vulnerable in another. Men and women, eyes and ears. But if we are to speak frankly, discarding all judgments and sayings, a sincerely loving person does not love with ears or eyes, but with the heart. And it does not matter who he is - a man or a woman, because there is nothing stronger than true love.