Although how to say if they meant sexual communication, and not love, by the word "sex", then it could well be. In those days, it seemed that there was no "deficit" in men, for every woman there was a man somewhere. And they had never even thought of calling a man and inviting him to a date. And what do we have now? It's been many years, and we still suffer from these stereotypes and are afraid to call your favorite guy first. Scary. What is it that a woman should do in this situation? How to behave? Everything is not so simple as it seems at first glance, because we do not exactly know how men are treated when a woman calls first.
Now the young people do not even think about what impression they have on the guys, they just take a mobile phone and dial its number or just write a message. And there are no problems. They feel free and can act as they see fit. But what do guys think about it? Is it good when a woman calls first? Is it moral? This is most often thought of by their mothers, who are accustomed to, to put it mildly, another time and values.
All is not so scary, sometimes men are even positive about this situation. Because of their constant employment, they do not have time to reach the phone, but it already depends on the men.
According to numerous surveys on this topic, the men answered that they are very happy when the woman calls first, as this shows her interest in this or that man. And accordingly, and is looking for communication with him. But it is also worth remembering to women that if a man does not call for one day or two, it's not scary, you just have to be patient. You can survive in the event that even after a week your half did not dial your phone number. The main thing in this case is not to be intrusive and show him that you still value yourself. It should also be remembered that usually the one who loves calls more often, and your call will flatter any man and increase his self-esteem.
Often sitting in front of the phone we have a question, like Hamlet, to call or not to call? Call. Here is the answer of many psychologists. It is not necessary to postpone the clarification of the situation. How do men feel about this behavior? It is safe to say that they will appreciate it. History remembers many cases, when a woman called her first choice and found excellent pretexts for this. And the man himself did not notice how he already got into her network. A well-thought-out pretext is half the battle. Do not call him with complaints that he does not call. It only repels men.
Calling the first is sometimes scary, because women do not know what to say with this man and do not call for this reason. Sometimes men, which may seem ridiculous, are afraid of being the first to call for the same reason as women. And this is normal, because we never fully know about the feelings of the opposite sex, until we hear it from their lips. It turns out that men are also receptive, like women, so everything is carefully and sensibly treated.
From all of the above, we can conclude that it does not matter whether the woman is calling first or the man. It is important that one of them does this and maybe a new love story will start to develop. And the world will be filled with joy and love from their beating hearts. The main moderation in everything: in calls and words. Remember this before calling the man first.