Five rules of relations that should not be violated

In a difficult situation, people are used to referring to instructions and strictly follow them. And when it comes to relationships and personal life, it turns out that there are no instructions. There are books that relate to the relationship of a woman and a man, but they are dated by the last century. What rules and prohibitions exist in the relationship? There are no strict postulates, but these recommendations will help you navigate the unknown, which are called relationships.
Relations between women and men

The first rule. Listen to the heart
Coming to a real date, flirting with someone you like or talking to someone on the Internet, you need to listen to your heart and pay attention to your inner feelings. If the words or actions of the person you like cause you emotions, you must pay attention to it and then act as follows. Emotions are bad and good. For example, if you met on the Internet and it seemed interesting to you, and having talked on the phone, it turned out that this is not what you are looking for, you can make decisions for yourself and not meet with them in real life. A good example would be if on a date he seemed to you shy, worried, but with good intentions, then the heart will tell you that you need to give one chance. Eventually, on the second date, you will understand if you want to see him again and what this person really is.

The second rule. Try not to disregard "alarm signals"
In a conversation with a person who we liked, we see and hear things that we do not really like. For example, in a conversation a person talks about past relationships, he is very keen on talking about them. Soul, he continues to be in that relationship. This should become a "signal of alarm" and should excite you. Even if he is a good man, you see only his best sides in him, but he is not yet ready for these relations. Often we just ignore such alarm signals and enter into a relationship with an unsuitable partner. The success of your relationship will depend on how well you own this art and whether you are able to notice these signals. It is to notice, and not try to find fault with your partner.

The third rule. Actions that speak louder than words
One day you will meet a man whose words will sound victorious and loud, but his actions will not be worth a penny. In your eyes he will look like a hero, a knight, a winner. But as soon as you need to do some actions, actions, you are upset by the fact that they are absent. To achieve success in your relationship with your boyfriend, you need to evaluate your actions, because they speak louder than any words.

The fourth rule. No games
The main thing is to be an honest person with whom you want to build relationships. You should respect your half as a good partner, do what you promise. If you promised to come, come, if you promised to call, call. If a man asks, tell him the truth. Games are not appropriate in a relationship. If feelings for a partner have cooled down, tell him this without quarrels and tactfully, do not be silent if you want this person to see again. If it's about relationships, do not play with your partner's feelings.

The fifth rule. Avoid the "players"
"Random" people are unacceptable in relationships, these people are also called "players". On your way, such personalities can meet. They are not interested in relationships, they are looking for benefits. Someone is looking for material support, someone is looking for a relationship at night. But whatever goals they pursue, you are not on the same path with them. You will not have anything good with them, just lose energy and time. And having received their own, they will disappear from your life.