Every woman dreams of marrying. A woman dreams not only about the wedding itself, but also about the white fluffy bride's dress. Men, on the contrary, even if there are worthy candidates for the role of the wife, do not hurry to go to the registry office. But why is a man so afraid of a registry office? Most men can not always admit that they are afraid of official registration of relations. Often, men motivate their fear with their previous unsuccessful conjugal or love experience, nonexistent superstitions, and therefore argue that a civil marriage is the best marriage.
In this regard, the question arises: a man has a woman who prepares him, removes, erases, clothes, engages in sex with him, instead of not demanding anything, why should he take any obligations on himself then, if so? You do not need to take care, drive to restaurants, too, to keep a woman is not obliged, and therefore costs less. A woman on bird rights, before opening her mouth to the partner, will think again, and the wife has certain rights, which gives her confidence and she can shout at her husband, make him do something. True, a comfortable position? Naturally. And suddenly on the life of a man a more interesting girl will turn up and if he is not married, he has a chance to take advantage of this situation and get acquainted. This is another reason why men do not want to have a ZAGS stamp in their passport.
Civil wives, as a rule, are forced to tell everyone that they are happy in a civil marriage and they are satisfied with such relations. But most often this is not so, because every woman dreams about the relationship with her lover being legalized.
Men are afraid to lose their own freedom and this is the main reason for not wanting to enter into a legitimate relationship. Many men are sure that after registration, a woman will immediately infringe on his rights, will constantly indicate his duties. Luring a man in a registry office is especially difficult if he already had an unsuccessful married experience behind him. But even if a man was not married, starting a family with him would not be easy. In the circle of friends of each single man there are married friends who like to complain about family life, besides openly jealous of the bachelor status of a friend.
A man who is afraid of losing his freedom often says himself that he has not yet walked up. Therefore, marriage for him will mean affection for one woman. Around the man there are many temptations, so it is difficult for him to decide on such a step and consciously deprive himself of the joys of bachelor life. Willingness to marry a man will appear only after he walks.
A convinced bachelor is even more difficult to entice in a registry office, as he is used to living alone, so he does not want a woman to live next to him. Even if a convinced bachelor falls in love, he will not hurry to legitimize his relationship with the girl, since he understands that marriage will change his life, and he is not yet ready to change his habitual way of life.
Some men are afraid of responsibility, so they do not hurry to marry. Man is so used to managing life at his discretion that he is not ready for change. And they will necessarily be after the wedding - they will have to change their habits and give up everything they've got used to and what they could do before the wedding, adjust to a completely new rhythm of life. The man understands that cheerful communication with friends will be a thing of the past. In the past, there will also be new interesting acquaintances, especially with the opposite sex. If a man likes his bachelor life, then from the thought of changing it he will experience fear.
Some men are simply not fit for family life, since they simply do not have enough time for their family because of their workload at work. If a man with his head goes into work, then he can not remember that he should call his beloved, that for the evening they planned to go together to visit or to the cinema.
Most men are afraid of women who openly declare their desire to get married. Men are frightened also by those women who with their whole essence show that they want to get married.
If a woman wants her chosen one to cease to postpone the marriage for a while, then she needs patience and does not say constantly that you are created for each other.