All parents worry about that their children do not encounter bad people who can offend them, inflict physical and moral trauma. To prevent this from happening, parents need to explain to their children the rules of behavior with strangers for children. After all, a small child is very sociable, so he wants to get acquainted with almost all of them in a row, especially with those who smile, talk with him cute, offer toys and sweets. However, because of such trustfulness, children can get into the most unpleasant situations. That's why parents need to establish a clear rule of conduct with strangers for children.
Communication with strangers only with senior
So, initially it is necessary to explain to the child that you can talk only with those people whom they were introduced by their father or mother. If on the street the child begins to communicate with unfamiliar men or women, then this communication should be strictly controlled by the elders. Explain to the kid that he can talk to unfamiliar uncles or aunts only when there is a mother, father, elder sister, brother, one of the relatives or some adult person who is well-known to the child, and, accordingly, his parents. Otherwise, it is forbidden to speak with strangers.
Tales about a trip to the parents
Explaining the rules of behavior, it is also necessary to emphasize the baby's attention to the fact that in no case can you go with people he does not know and even more so sit in their car. Often, in such situations for children, a bike is prepared that parents sent for them. Explain to your child that you and your dad will always warn him if you want to send someone. Therefore, when an uncle or aunt says that they are taking them to their parents, they should not believe in any way, otherwise trouble will happen.
Do not believe in the bounty of strangers
Even in the rules of behavior that you tell your child, there must be a clause stating that you can not trust people whom they promise to buy something for. Try to explain to the child logically that unfamiliar uncles and aunts simply will not give anything. So you do not need to believe them. If a child is offered to go with someone to buy something, let him answer that he does not need anything, and mom and dad will buy everything. Even if a stranger offers something that a child dreams about, he should not believe. Of course, it is difficult to convey to young children, but you have to convince him that only Santa Claus and parents and relatives are cherishing desires, and not strangers on the street.
Many children trust women more than men, especially if these women are pleasant and smiling. In your rules of conduct, emphasis must be placed on these ladies. Explain to the child that even if the aunt is kind and smiling, she does not need to go with her. After all, if she is kind, she will understand that you simply do not want to go with her.
Who to contact for help
If a child starts to take something away by force, he should shout and call for help. Explain to the kid that there is nothing to be ashamed of. Let him call those who are nearby. If he can escape, then immediately you need to run to the men in uniform. Explain to the child that his uncle, a policeman, can protect him. In addition, in this case, you can be almost one hundred percent sure that your baby will really intervene. By the way, it can be not only a policeman, but also a security guard or a fireman. The main thing is that it's a person in uniform. Let the child always remember this. If there is not a single male in the uniform, then explain to the child that he should seek help from another aunt. Well, if it's a woman with a child. In this case, there is more confidence that the lady will not ignore his request.
And one more tip that can be included in the rules of conduct when this situation occurs. If your child has a mobile phone, then let him immediately call you and tell you where he is, what's wrong with him. In this case, most likely, a person who wants to harm your child will feel fear of being discovered and left. Remember that such interest in children is manifested by deeply complexed and mentally unhealthy people who are afraid of society and increased attention.