The study clearly established only the relationship between the number of children and the length of life of women. Thus, it was found that the smallest risk of early death in the fairer sex gave birth to just one to three children, the highest mortality due to the deterioration in the health of mothers who have grown more than 5 children. The reason that the female body during pregnancy and childbirth carries a load, often significant blood loss, inflammatory processes, weakening of immunity, hormonal disorders. In any case, postpartum rehabilitation and rehabilitation is necessary, which takes time, but in a large family this is not possible. And then, to combine family, home and work is not easy to do. If we take into account the current situation in the world regarding the health of women, the environment and the standard of living in many countries, we can confidently say that birth does not go without consequences, and everything depends on the individualities of the woman's body. So what makes women give birth only once, or go on this feat several times more? Let's figure it out.
How much do you need?
Ideally, it is considered that our nation does not begin to slowly and confidently die out, a woman should have three children. But this is only a theory and figures, but how then everything is really to be.
It is now accepted that three children are many. Although in the ordinary life the number "three" does not cause such an association in any way. Therefore, future parents are already initially set on the fact that "many" children they do not want. In fact, a truly large family, we can consider a family, which brings up a minimum of five. But now it's more an exception than a rule.
Often difficult first births and health conditions stop a woman in her former zeal to have a large family, sometimes it makes financial difficulties, or both husband and wife decide.
It happens that such families still decide on the second. But before this, they think for a long time, review their material possibilities, solve problems with the housing problem and adjust morally. The thought of the third child, if it does, does not last long. It is impossible not to mention all the respected public, which also exerts its influence on us. And usually parents who want to have three or more children are most often diagnosed as not completely adequate. After all, not everyone can boast of a good financial situation, and without special difficulties to grow, raise and learn all the children. The result is one - the number of such necessary large families decreases.
How much do you want?
Scientists have put forward another very interesting hypothesis. The essence of it is that only one woman is usually desired by a woman who is prone to selfishness. And as it turned out, this character trait is usually further if not inherited, then actively educated parents. Only I ask you to immediately note that this is a family where they deliberately decided to confine themselves to one child, and did not do so because of their health condition and other important circumstances. Is it really? Here is direct proof.
So, the first thing we hear from parents who have one child: "We can provide childhood / youth / maturity / only one child. Well, it seems that there is nothing to complain about. Everyone is counting on their opportunities. But as practice shows, together with the investment of all of their means, strength, and nerves from the child begin to demand maximum returns. Parents want one, the most intelligent, beautiful, strong, successful, and so on. etc. child. At the same time, little attention is often paid to the abilities and wishes of the child himself. Yes, and the baby does not have such a need, something to decide and wish for, because everyone is ready to do it for him. Parents try to realize everything through the child that they could not once do on their own.
You did not notice, often the cases when a woman already in adulthood, knowing how to perform a certain male work well, or dealing with an object or tool, surprisingly strangers with sadness in her voice answers: "I just wanted a boy, and I was born" . Here is a vivid example of the interests imposed by the parents. In this case, parents are usually very critical of the failures of the child, and are unable to accept the idea that their child is not a child prodigy or an Olympic champion, but an ordinary child.
Total.
When "calculating" the desired number of children that a woman should have in addition to all the factors mentioned above, it should also be taken into account whether she wants to give herself some free time or not. If so, then there must be at least two children. After all, the child needs constant communication, as well as attention. When he is alone - the object from which he will demand the fulfillment of all his needs, there will be parents. If the kids are two, then most of the time they will play together, letting you, take a few minutes to do what you want or need. It will be the same if there are three or four children in the family. Usually, at the appearance of the fifth, the situation does not change much, as the first one will grow up to this time, and it will be a full-fledged assistant for you. It should also be mentioned that children from large families are more industrious, responsible and in the future are not afraid of life's difficulties.
And if you do not delve into all sorts of extremes, then, in fact, it does not matter how many children a woman will have, the main thing is that all of them should be coveted and loved. Material difficulties have always been, the housing issue will be solved for many years, but the joy that children bring in comparison with problems takes a very short period. Expend this time, and do not be afraid to prolong it. And do not forget that children are your future, so you have a chance to make it bright for yourself.