Psychologists have studied many happy couples, and were surprised to find that their dating sites are very prosaic. Here, as nowhere does the principle "where I was born, there and it came in handy". Most people find their destiny in the neighborhood, among friends, colleagues or in the nearest restaurant. History, when the future husband and wife went the same path to school, but in different shifts, and never crossed, are not as rare as it might seem.
So, let's try to disassemble all the pros and cons of the most popular dating sites.
Neighbors
Walking around the house, you can meet your destiny. You just need to be more attentive to the people next to whom you live. Common memories, common stories, district stories, important events - this is what initially makes you people of one group. This can be useful for the relationship, because the time for adaptation to each other's social environment is noticeably shortened. Usually the couple living in the neighborhood know everything around. Do not waste time trying to please his friends or acquaintances. To create a family, this is a good base, apparently, therefore, marriages between former neighbors are very frequent.
Companies of friends
In the company of friends you can easily get acquainted with a man with whom a strong family can form. Some people consciously choose such a way of finding a partner, and they know the point. So the society is organized, that usually people are friendly either by the principle of similarity, or by the principle of complementarity. And friends of friends, as a rule, are much more cute than strangers. You can just hang out with your friends and pay attention to their brothers, sisters, relatives on vacation, and so on. Or you can even ask them to find you a pair.
For example, the famous American TV presenter Kim Kardashian was the only way to find all her guys. Result: at her age of 29 she had never been without a man for more than three months. And friends picked her exactly those guys who suited her both in nature and in lifestyle. Pronounce your friends your requirements, search criteria, ask them to think whether they have the people you need. With rare exceptions, you will receive a sincere desire to help, and such help can actually make you happy.
Job
Service novels are not allowed in any company. However, statistics on their behalf are very encouraging: a huge percentage of serious and stable marriages is between colleagues. Eight hours in the office five days a week are brought together sometimes better than short visits in the restaurant. So if you are in search of a man for a serious relationship, do not dismiss work as a source of future personal happiness. Do not play with fire, do not go to triple alliances - with married or not lone colleagues. And you will succeed!
Restaurants, clubs
Companies of friends, neighbors and colleagues are not the only places you can meet for a serious relationship with a man. Restaurants and nightclubs, too, should not be discarded, and yet, contrary to popular belief, these are far from the most successful places to find the future of the condemned. Perhaps this is due to the fact that men have prejudices against lovers of nightly entertainment. Maybe the reason is that companies are going to clubs, and they rarely look around, but night clubs and restaurants as a place of dating of future spouses are far from in favor with modern young people. But even they surpass in the likelihood of finding a man for a long romance such places of acquaintance as resorts.
Resorts and beaches
Successful families can also be created here. Only hope for this, having screwed up the resort novel, it is not necessary. In most cases, relationships away from home, fastened on vacation, end with the rest. And yet, to dismiss this way of dating is not worth it. Just show increased vigilance. Find a way to find out if your boyfriend is married. If you are purposefully looking for a man for long relationships at a resort, pay attention to what city he is from. With the countryman of the relationship to continue - in the case of a very large sympathy and mutual motivation - much easier. It turns out that the further from the house and native places we go in our search, the less chance to find a serious relationship.
Online Dating
Recently, social networks and dating sites have become serious sources of both marriages and divorces. Some are looking for dating there for one night, others are dreaming of finding their "soul mate". You should not succumb to the influence of pessimists and think that on the Internet you can not find your love. This is possible, you just have to take into account that only 2% of the information in the questionnaires is presented truthfully. The Internet is the most successful place for demonstrating myself not as I am, but as I want to be. People exaggerate there their dignity, do not always honestly write about the shortcomings.
To successfully search for a man for a serious relationship on the Internet, consider some important rules. First, try not to succumb to the charm of his words until you see him personally. Secondly, remember all that is written above: the closer you are to a man spatially, the more chances for successful relationships. Traveling for love to a neighboring city or to another side of the earth is romantic, but keeping a distance is a huge work, not every man is ready to go to. Thirdly, look for the opportunity to immediately determine what the intentions of a man. The Internet gives them a huge space for realizing the desire of one-day relationships. In this case, men do not always admit this desire. Be careful, do not trust blindly words, until you see a person firsthand, and then you too can expect a lot of success.