Neskuchnye weekend
There are people who are heavy on the rise. To go to your own dacha (20 minutes by minibus from the house), they first need to "think", "get together," "be enthusiastic." Your children will not be among such individuals. You'll take care of this. How? Every weekend, go on a trip. Not necessarily in another city. First, learn your native. After all, the main thing is to take the first step. And then before you - the whole world.
• If you have a car, the weekend can turn into a kaleidoscope of new impressions. Kamenetz-Podolsky, Mukachevo, Lviv, Yaremcha, Odessa ... The child does not get bored on a trip - the change of landscapes outside the window is interesting even for a small one. Book a hotel for the night over the phone or over the Internet. On Monday you will go to work not just rested - updated!
• No matter how busy you are, make a plan for the weekend is easy. Think about where to go: the zoo, the oceanarium, the monument to Ostap Bender or Panikovsky. At your disposal is the World Wide Web. Read about the sights - and the kid finds out that Dad is also an ace-guide. Naturally, every sally finish with a delicious lunch. After walks in the fresh air increase appetite.
• Nobody canceled the fishing with my father Saturday. This tradition is very many years old, and it is still relevant. Quiet morning, splash of water, expectation of the bite, aromatic tea from a thermos with sandwiches - all this the child will remember for a long time. This creates a certain state of mind that you want to experience again and again.
• Bad weather should not be detained at home. Cinema, bowling, skating rink, go-karting, water park - everything to make you leave the house, tear yourself away from the screen of your laptop or TV. In general, in your power to establish a tradition called: "Neskuchnye weekend." Behind the walls of the house you can always find something interesting, new, pleasant. Thanks to this approach, the kid will understand that the rest is in unforgettable sensations and emotions.
Work is beyond the threshold
A miner, a programmer or a cardiac surgeon - try to decide working questions at the right time. Keep to this tradition is not easy. The temptation is great: come home, open the laptop and - it started. But imagine that the child has been waiting for you since ... your departure to work. He wants to share the news, to show Baze Layter's move to infinity and cuddle up to his father's cheek. How can you refuse? For a while, forget everything and move into a parallel reality. Only an hour and a half - and you do not want back. So I would sit in a tent with a book about Oorfene Deuce in my hands! True, it's great to at least enjoy the conversation with a crumb at night and expel a string of problems from your life? A great tradition!
Mommy's joy
The holiday of March 8 created a stereotype in men's minds: officially we give happiness together with mimosa to women on this spring day. You can eliminate the nuance of the Soviet era. Rejoice Mom constantly! Especially since it is not so difficult.
Saturday Breakfast
Actually, not necessarily Saturday, you can and Sunday. Let the wife lie for an hour, admire Julia Vysotskaya and take her wonderful recipes. In the meantime, bake pancakes with a baby or cook buckwheat porridge and prepare a salad. Or ... Options at your discretion. So you, in spite of all the laws, will catch two birds with one stone. Firstly, you will present your beloved magic morning. Secondly, you will teach the child to cook.
Shopping and not only
You understand that mom is such a profession, in which there are no days off. And if they are, it's very, very rare. Give them more often. You stay with the baby, and the wife goes in search of a coat (boots, sweaters, rugs in the bathroom). Perhaps to meet with the girlfriends. In a word, leave the spouse to herself. She will spend time in her own pleasure and will feel ... how much she has longed for you.
We respect you
Let your mother-in-law resemble Mrs. Cruella from the cartoon "101 Dalmatians". And it seems that all the anecdotes are invented about your mother's mother. But do not forget that this woman is a grandmother. Hence, it deserves at least respect. Despite everything, a child should grow up with this thought. And even better - with a feeling of love for grandparents. The tradition of respecting and helping the older generation is necessary not only for this generation itself. It gives rise to responsibility in man. And to show how to treat relatives, you can only by example. Call, ask about their affairs and well-being. Do not forget to give the phone to the crumb, so that he talked with his grandmother, told how the day went. Take the time to visit your parents. For them, as for the baby, this is a great happiness!
There is no reason? Let's think!
Who said that gifts and surprises are the prerogative of the holidays? What, for example, is the New Year better than the first Tuesday of the week? We agree that it is more pathetic and it happens like a birthday, "only once a year." So October 17 happens once in 365 days. In general, the tradition of surprising a child with gifts not only on holidays is beautiful in all respects. Nobody says "every day". Let occasionally, but unexpectedly. A small typewriter, a kite, a flashlight or pencils. A bright twinkle of delight, which lights up when you see a toy in the eyes of a child, warms your soul. Nicely? Highly! Other specialists in child psychology can say: this is wrong, you dilute the child. They reproach: they say, you buy a good attitude ... But when in life, except in childhood, does a person receive gifts just like that? Only because they love him, they want to surprise and admire his smile. Positive emotions from these little things remain for a long time. Forever. And so in the future your baby will certainly come up with his own traditions. Because they fill life with meaning and joy! And she wants to save, share it and thus multiply.