In fact, men can think about whether revenge can be avenged by treason. But, often, they choose other methods, and change for other reasons, and, sometimes completely without them. To avenge with treason is a woman's lot. Why do women think that it is possible to revenge in this way? Why do they consider it to be the most effective?
Firstly, the fact is that treason is a sick subject for both women and men. Representatives of both sexes are not very happy with this fact. But they have different psychological grounds for reaction to treason. Why do women suffer and want revenge in this way? First, they take revenge on the betrayal of the lady only for treason. It is this male misconduct that is powerful enough to take revenge in this way. In other cases, women punish men with less radical methods.
But, let's return to why the girls avenge for treason with the help of treason. The fact is that after learning about such a betrayal of a man, consciously or subconsciously, the lady begins to feel defective. She thinks that the guy has changed to her, because he found someone more beautiful and attractive. But that is not all. Women can invent many reasons for betrayal: the mind, the economy, the understanding. Girls begin to feel very much and suffer. They do not understand how you can act in this way, if you say that you love. Also, the women begin to develop an inferiority complex on the basis of these thoughts. That's when some people come to the conclusion that they will change their young man to spite. And they will do it in order to hurt and assert themselves. Let the man see that someone appreciates and loves her, someone pays attention, and if they part, then she will not be alone.
Well, how do men perceive this situation? Often, they do not forgive women for betrayals. But, it's not a matter of inferiority and the thought that he is not beautiful and smart enough. Although, this also takes place, but does not occupy the main position. Learning that a woman has changed, a man is angry, because he was deprived of property. No matter how rude it may sound, hatred of women's treachery comes from the guys with a sense of ownership. They do not want to think and know that belonging to them can belong to another. In addition, the guys easily justify their own actions, saying that they acted without hesitation. It just happened. And, although knowing us women a little, they understand that normal young ladies go to such deeds deliberately and consciously, in order to cause pain. In the end, it may turn out that the guy will also blame the girl for treachery, and he can easily justify himself in the eyes of other men. But almost never will understand and justify a woman. Very often there are cases when guys, changing themselves, believe that they simply stumbled and in this, in principle, there is nothing terrible. But, when they learn about the betrayal of a girl, then they blame her for all their sins, take offense, quarrel, force to beg for forgiveness, or even break off relations.
But, nevertheless, no matter how they would not protect themselves and how they would not lead in such situations, the betrayal of the woman also brings them pain, even though this pain is of a different nature. Therefore, choosing revenge through treason, almost one hundred percent can be sure that a man will hook it to the depths of his soul, and he will not forget such a deed for a long time. But, deciding on this go, you need to understand what kind of result you want to get in the end. After all, what girls expect and what they have in the end is very different.
If a woman avenges through treason, she wants a man to experience pain and repent of the deed. Undoubtedly, he feels pain, but does not repent almost never. Therefore, if you decided to revenge that way, be prepared for the fact that this will be the last point in your relationship. Most likely, the guy will not forgive you and make you guilty. And, he can tell about everything so that they will not believe you, but him. You always need to be ready for this, but do not try to justify yourself or clarify something. This will only confirm your guilt. It's best to just walk away with your head held high. Then, perhaps, at least in the depths of the soul, a man will understand and realize that it is he who is to blame. But, on the renewal of relations, most likely, speech still will not go.
If you decide to change it for self-affirmation, but do not talk about anything, be prepared for the fact that sooner or later you will be tortured by conscience. After all, no matter how painful we are, we forgive those whom we love. Therefore, you will want to confess and repent. But, after your repentance, most likely, there will be a quarrel and a break for the reasons described above.
But, in any case, remember that treason will never help to establish relationships. Even if a man accepts and realizes his guilt, you will no longer have confidence. In general, it is difficult to build relationships after when you learn that the native person has changed you, and even harder - when this betrayal is double. Each of you, consciously or subconsciously, will think that in case of something, it will happen again. Begin to appear groundless suspicions and jealousy, which, in the end, again lead to a rupture.
Therefore, before making such a decision, think carefully and weigh the pros and cons. Remember the consequences and decide if you are ready for them. Such revenge is like an atomic bomb for your relationship. Most likely, it will lead to mass destruction of all the good that you had. So if you can not be with this person anymore, just go. And only in the case when you understand that you can not live peacefully, if you do not do something like that, then decide on such a step and never regret the consequences.