Survive together for a long time and trust your partner as yourself. But suddenly you notice a sudden change in his behavior and immediately panic: "He cheats on me!" Sometimes it turns out to be true, but not always so. Intuition, of course, is a strong thing, and it should also be trusted. But there is one more help - reliable signs of male infidelity, after studying which, you can not be mistaken with the conclusions.
Signals that can not be ignored:
1. He began to take more care of himself
Your man has never been very careful. Stretched tights and a favorite T-shirt five years ago - his constant companions at home. And then he suddenly changes his attitude to his appearance. He asks questions like: "How do I look?", "Is this a fashionable suit?". "Which tie should I choose?" He suddenly concludes that it's time to do physical exercises, to get weak, to regain the former form. He is standing longer than usual in front of a mirror, thinking about something. Another option - your man regularly visits a hairdresser, he started running around in the morning or going to the gym. I bought myself an expensive cologne, a new underwear. And for all your puzzled statements he either just stupidly says nothing or says: "Well, I had to start watching myself someday. It's all for you. "
By the way, sharp changes can concern not only its appearance, but also health. The man suddenly begins to monitor his blood pressure, passes blood tests (just in case), takes vitamins for prevention or buys anti-hair loss creams.
2. He had secret conversations by phone
When his cell phone rings, he runs to the bathroom and talks to someone in a low voice. And the question "Who called?" Mumbles something indistinct about an old army friend or a colleague at work. Or just annoyed and asks you not to go into his affairs, in which you do not understand anything. Yes, for some men, the best defense is an attack. They can also go on the offensive with statements like: "I do not blame you when you chat with your mom or girlfriend for hours!" In any case, men have such conversations always mean something.
3. You see it less often than usual
Every evening on Thursdays he plays poker with friends and has been working overtime for the second week already. Suddenly he began to travel on business trips, which had never been before. He says that at work he was just overwhelmed with cases, although his salary was not affected. On the contrary, he began to give you less money and stopped giving them away altogether. He first spoke of a separate vacation, in order to give you the opportunity to relax to the fullest. It is you, not him. What a sudden care for your leisure!
4. He secretly sends SMS
The same applies to e-mail. He generally began to stay longer than usual in the evenings at the computer or in the toilet with a mobile in hand. Do not mock yourself with the hope that he plays java games. Try to approach him quietly, when he is busy with another "game". See his lightning reaction, jerking, a glancing look or, on the contrary, a sudden fury. A man does not like to be caught unawares. You will immediately understand this.
5. He constantly criticizes you
Previously, he was tolerated by your shortcomings. But recently his patience has disappeared somewhere. He began to carp at you for every little thing. Then you have been in the shower for too long, then you have oversaturated the soup, you forgot to remind him to pass the inspection ... Do you get the impression that he is just looking for reasons to start the scene? And maybe this is so? Because after a quarrel a man no longer needs to explain to you why he disappears from home for the night. So it turns out that you brought it to this!
6. He became too caring
This is the other extreme of the wrong man. For example, suddenly for no apparent reason he began to buy flowers for you, prepare your favorite dishes and bring breakfast to bed. He listens to your requests, warns all your desires, does everything you ask for. If you do not have a honeymoon, be wary. So men cover their guilt feelings. One thing only has to console you - this is the feeling of guilt he has. So, in spite of everything, he really loves you. So, at least, psychologists say. Is it easier for you?
7. He became different in bed
He became more passionate and inventive, you just can not believe that this is your old man. He's just sex in pure form! He wants you more often than usual and in the most unexpected places. His eyes sparkle, he is very passionate. Or another option - he generally ceased to engage in sex with you. It refers to fatigue, a disease of your beloved dog, stress at work - anything, just do not go to bed with you. Sits up late, waiting for you to fall asleep, and only then sneaks into bed. The first option, of course, is more pleasant for you, but no less dangerous. Any sharp change in sex should alert you. They are never accidental!
8. He is always in a bad mood
He recently strangely depressed, closed, it seems that he is somewhere not with you, and you are only the object of his irritation. If you try to ask what the matter is, he will answer you in monosyllables. Of course, the cause of this behavior may be problems at work, but often this is a consequence of his serious relationship on the side. You simply interfere with him, and it irritates him. This sign is usually the most serious and the most controversial. Do not draw conclusions based only on this. But you do not need to miss this moment either.
Signals that leave no doubt:
1. Tickets to the cinema, restaurant bills, strange checks ... All this gets to the man in his pocket for a reason. If you find something like this - your man just got caught.
2. A love letter. Putting sandwiches in his portfolio, you accidentally stumbled upon a fragrant note. What does it mean? Sensual confessions, such words as "love", "desire", "beloved". And this is not your handwriting!
3. Traces of caress. On the neck of a loved one you suddenly discovered a "suck." He, of course, will say that he was bitten by a mad bee or something like that. Yes, this bee may have serious plans for your man ...
4. Another's photo. He carries it with him or keeps in his desk drawer. He hides it and goes into a rage, if you ask who it is. Everything is clear.
5. Confusion in names. Your man suddenly calls you a stranger's name. And if this happens repeatedly - even there are no questions.
6. Lonely nights. He leaves the house in the evening, and returns in the morning. At the same time he completely ignores your questions and in response only smiles mockingly. This is the most indisputable of all reliable signs of male infidelity.
What should I do if my love
1. First of all, do not blame yourself;
2. Give vent to your emotions: you can cry, scream! Healthy anger is better than painful regret and sorrow;
3. Discuss what you feel, with someone you trust. It is easier to gather strength to fight your problems when you are not alone;
4. Change! Change hair color, buy new clothes. You will feel more powerful and independent - he should not see that your world lies in ruins.