Changing, do not change.
Your loved ones know you "from and to," so they easily notice any changes. If many years in a row on weekends you knit, and recently suddenly began to go to the circus in proud solitude, this will give rise to suspicion. Therefore, you will gradually accustom your loved ones to the fact that you can change your hobbies, the daily routine. In the meantime, try to meet with your lover in a safe time and in a safe place.
Be attentive.
In today's world, communication is impossible without telephones and computers. Most often, these achievements of civilization are exposed. Therefore, you will have to learn to use these things wisely. For example, delete all calls - incoming and outgoing, as well as sms from the lover. Do it right away, do not leave it for later. At night, turn off the phone at all or turn off the sound - if an ardent boyfriend decides to call, and you at this time will be at home with your husband, then his call will not be much to the point.
In the computer, do not leave any bookmarks, if you are a fan of dating sites, do not save the message history in ICQ and regularly clean up the mail. And do not forget to periodically change passwords.
Be in touch.
With her husband, of course. Whenever he calls, you should always pick up the phone and lie in a convincing voice. A few missed calls or SMS-off, the phone is off, and he will start to wonder if you really went to a friend. And it's not far and to the inspections, which you can not guess, until it's too late.
Watch yourself.
Go home in the same way you left home, especially for small things. A hurry, you can leave a bra and do not notice this, and the husband will necessarily note the missing detail of your wardrobe. If you always carried condoms or other contraceptives with you, and the husband was aware of this, do not allow anything to be missing. If it so happened that you took a condom from the "family" stocks, replenish them.
Especially pay attention to the smell. If you smell of another's man's perfume, then no lies will not help. Or give her husband and lover the same perfume, or carefully washed in the shower after each meeting. Do not try to kill the male smell with your perfume - it will not save, but will only emphasize the difference in your usual smell.
In addition, be sure to protect yourself. If you bring a "gift" in the form of a venereal disease into the house, your marriage will collapse with a loud crash.
Be ready.
To the attack. All the secret sooner or later becomes obvious, and it is foolish to believe that the husband will always remain in ignorance. Firstly, with the slightest suspicion, husbands like to check phones and computers. Let's say you took this into account and took action. But your spouse can take a printout of your phone calls and figure out a stranger number that can cause a divorce. Wise women have not only another SIM card, but also a cell phone - especially for secret meetings. Only to hide it it is necessary with mind.
Secondly, the machine. If you drive your car, it is in it may be evidence. Butts, forgotten condoms, all this often becomes a proof of treason.
If you have a child, do not let him even hear the edge of your ear about your encounters with your lover. Even small children, who seemingly barely learned to speak, are able to blurt out the truth about you at the most inopportune moment.
Do not bring home gifts, flowers. This will cause questions.
In order to remain faithful to his wife even in the eyes of her husband, you will have to spend a lot of strength and nerves. You will have to be afraid that you will be recognized in the metro, at a concert, at a restaurant, wherever you are. You will know that your movements are easy to calculate, you can overhear calls, read the correspondence. You will have to lie and justify yourself, to involve your girlfriends in order to help create a convincing alibi. In the end, something necessarily breaks, someone will blab or you will make a fatal mistake. Therefore, before you get involved in such adventures, think about whether an honest divorce will be less evil.