Mother-in-law "Feudal"
By nature, she is a feudal lord, and all her domestic serfs. Considering that you are an "enemy paratrooper" who flopped straight into her peaceful chicken coop, you are a potential danger for her. And even if the engagement ring is already adorned on your finger, she did not forget about it. In this case, in principle, it can not be said that the mother-in-law always objects to communication with the women of her son. She simply could not forgive you that the son dared to choose his wife without her active participation and the mother's council. It is clear even to a blind man that his mother-in-law knows better than his son what his happiness is.
What to do? The best way to establish relations with the scandalous mother-in-law "feudal lord" is to pretend that you listen attentively to her notations, consult every little detail and admire her ability to manage the economy. However, do this in your own way. She will gradually get used to you and begin to perceive as another defenseless child. In the end, she is not evil. Just a bit domineering.
Mother-in-law "Scout"
The mother-in-law of this psychological type is suspicious to manic. This energetic lady will bring anything to "clean water". From the very first moment of your acquaintance, you will start to sniff something out and collect dirt on you. With you, she can greet through her teeth, even though you live in the same apartment. And at the same time whispering to his son every day: "I saw your wife on the street today. She talked to a man too familiarly. " So do not be surprised if one day you see your lover in anger. Simply, his mother somewhere "sniffed" that you have an affair with your boss boss, and you have already made three abortions from him. This gossip, undoubtedly, would be very flattering to your boss. But it does not make it any easier for you.
What to do? In no case can not be justified. Useless! And even the certificate you brought from the police about the absence of convictions will be for her an indisputable proof that you bribed law enforcement. Behave confidently and with dignity. Do not get involved in useless arguments. The one who loves you, and so knows what you really are.
Mother-in-law "Nasedka"
Such a mother-in-law refuses to categorically admit that the son has already become an adult man. She takes care of him every minute, believing that she is simply fulfilling her sacred maternal duty. She without warning can tumble into your room at any time of the day to bring her freshly prepared stew. She can dig in your underwear and, wanting to give a gift, buys only one pillow. To whom? Of course, not you. Such a mother-in-law, your desire to create a social unit usually meets with hysteria with a refrain: "I already do not need anyone, you can turn me in to an old people's home." And if she somehow managed to still tolerate your existence (just a son used to sleep with a teddy bear, and now with some girl sleeping), then from this moment she will openly hate you. In clinical cases, you will find in your cup a lapel potion instead of tea and a note "Go, unclean power!".
What to do? Talking with such a mother-in-law is frankly useless - it will end with validol and accusations of insensitivity. Here it is necessary to act quickly and decisively - to reduce communication to a protocolally polite, with a mandatory call the day before by phone. In the debate do not enter and not find out who is more in love with the "poor boy". To the husband on the mother-in-law not to slander! Periodically sending him to communicate with Mummy provided, of course, that it will not in your absence lead against you the same hostilities. If, of course, you will succeed.
The mother-in-law of the Viper
The mother-in-law with the "Viper" index is a hysterical person and scandalous. She clearly does not like you. But he will never say it directly. She will wait patiently when you make a mistake to ask your son loudly: "And where did you dig it ?!" When your future husband takes you home, you will feel like a guest, like a powder keg. "Viper" will ignore your cues, referring only to his son, as if you are not in the room. And this despite the application already submitted to the registrar! And if you, taught by bitter experience, try to avoid communication, then she decides that you consider her unworthy of her society. Wait, it will still be.
What should I do ? You may think that it is necessary to treat it. For example, a regular intake of rat poison. However, this woman is in reality - an unhappy creature, offended by the whole world. It seems to her that everything around them is just so busy that she has to deal with her. The main thing is not to be afraid of such a mother-in-law. Your primary weapon is a warm look and a soft smile. Remember that aggression is often a plea for help. So help her. If the event is successful, it can become your faithful friend. After all, the world is so cruel, but you understand it so perfectly.
Mother-in-law "Fox"
At first glance, it seems to you that your husband has a world mother. She immediately suggests calling herself by name and drinking a glass for acquaintance. You "thaw" and regularly chat with her, as with a girlfriend, about all sorts of ladies' tricks. Moreover, afraid of offending the "world" mother, "you patiently listen to her stories about a former womanizer-husband. She can also express the fear that the son went all over to his father: "And do not count how many he had girlfriends!". Your soul is beginning to be tormented by vague doubts, no longer pleases the idea of marriage. The mother-in-law "Fox" adds fuel to the fire and silently triumphs. Despite everything, you apply to the registry office and live with your mother-in-law in one apartment. "Fox" shows universal joy, but she knows that she lost only the first round. And that the Vatican's permission to divorce you will not have to ask.
What to do? Be alert and keep your distance. Do not react to flattery and do not pay attention to her revelations - half of them - is not true. From you, she will wait for the same "openness" to one day to make them public to your husband. Therefore diplomacy and diplomacy! Not a single superfluous word. Another important point - always be on the side of your man and do not let anyone talk about him scornfully. Even his mother!
This is only an incomplete list of potentially malicious mother-in-law. However, do not think that all mothers are so nasty. Correctly behaving with a scandalous mother-in-law, you can enlist her support and even become best friends. We sincerely wish you to be a father-in-law of thin, delicate, loving. And they understand perfectly how lucky their son, who snatched such a firebird. And what are you so skeptical about smiling? Do you think it's unrealistic?