You can imagine that one day, in one bright, wonderful, and best of all to say a momentous day, your phone rang or a doorbell rang, and you can hear a woman's voice in the phone or open the door, and there is a woman standing there. She speaks confidently and calmly, perfectly keeps, with dignity, and tells you that she is the lover of your beloved husband.
Of course, in the first place you will come to a shock state. It should be noted that all women react to this in different ways. You can roll the hysterics, start screaming and crying, you can just smirk, smiling to close the door in front of her nose. You can not foresee this reaction or expect some specific actions, because you will not guess how you will behave at this moment.
All of us, women, can understand how to hurt such things about your husband. In this situation, the most striking is not the woman, who came to claim the rights to your beloved spouse, namely the man who could change you and zavedublyubnitsu. It's clear that it will be difficult to calm down, but you need to try to do it. And when you take a little breath and come to your senses, then think about why this strange woman came to you?
Naturally, the mistress of your spouse, who was unafraid and with all impudence came to your house and told that your husband is cheating with her, is waiting to see your hysterics, cries, tears, and most importantly, she hopes for your divorce with her husband. And you will surely begin to insist on this. After all, many marriages broke up simply for the simple reason that many women lacked the usual female wisdom, and they could not reasonably and soberly consider what made the mistress of her husband come to their home.
You have to understand that in reality the lover is in a much worse situation than you are a legitimate wife. Let him see a dream, spend with her dinners and dinners, sometimes even nights. Let her spend time with him at nightclubs, restaurants, but all family holidays, which usually people spend with family and close people, she spends alone, in proud solitude.
Just think about how much a lover can not only love and not respect, but even hate the wife with which the husband somehow more time and wife, to which the husband returns! Of course, if he started a mistress, it means he's fine with her, but if he comes home, then it's even better for him at home, because his family is waiting for him. Mistress - this is just another way for men to relax and have fun.
Of course, the main desire of a mistress is to take revenge on you. Yes, she decided to break your happiness, but she does not have the right to do so. But in any case, she feels a sense of self-satisfaction.
Your main task is not to be carried out on the provocations that your spouse has prepared for you. After all, this has already happened right now, your most important trump card is your pride. It is worth remembering that you are not just an ex-wife, you have many statuses - you are a sexual object, you are the mother of the children you gave birth with your husband.
You do not even need to think about trying to keep a man, if he decided to leave you, especially do not try to arrange scandals and scenes for him, just get together and talk to him calmly, without hysteria, find out the reasons for which a new woman appeared in his life . Perhaps these are quite solvable problems, in which you can help.
In no case need to look for a meeting with a husband's spouse, do not know who she is, what she does, where she works, do not try to accidentally run into her. Let her think that her visit has left no trace in your family life, let her be sure that you do not care at all and you are able to keep your husband female.
Do not hold in yourself the negative energy that you have gained, do not hold yourself back, try to throw it away. If you want, you can enroll in karate or sambo, start doing things that you have not had enough time for, or what you have always dreamed of. Let the negative go, and this place will be filled with positive energy, positive thoughts, which in any case will bring you a luck.