How to behave with the boss

When two people meet, a man and a woman, they definitely have some kind of relationship. This is the law of nature. And what if these two are one boss and the other is a subordinate? What needs to be done to ensure that the work goes on as usual and there are no conflicts? How to behave with the boss? About how a woman competently behave with the boss, and as a man - with the boss we will tell in this article. Everyone knows that male subordinates always come up with different nicknames for the boss, (mumra, boss in a skirt, mom are just the most innocuous of them), and her flaws and virtues are discussed in the smoking room. After all, the duty of a woman leader always has to be the focus of attention.

It turns out that a man in the first minute acquaintance with a representative of the opposite sex for himself subconsciously decides how much he likes it or not. So it is inherent in nature (purely physiologically). Psychological facts is that any man at the thought that his boss is a woman, feels not very comfortable.

Therefore, men first carefully study the habits and professional qualities of the female chef, and only then will they agree to follow its decrees and instructions. Therefore - if you want to win the subordinates' location, you should not abuse your power first. You need to behave with subordinate men as your peers and not show your superiority too clearly. And, of course, watch yourself and look feminine. Do not forget to be sometimes coquettish (you are forgivable) and be attentive to your subordinates.

But what if your situation is exactly the opposite? Are you a woman and do not know how to behave with a male boss?

Remember that any boss is always surrounded by female attention. Most women flirting with their own boss. But we would advise you not to go ahead. Do not put on work blouses with a deep neckline and miniskirts - it can make the boss nervous. Try not to pester him with your problems - after all, the boss has so many worries. Remember that the boss will cleanly subconsciously avoid you if you constantly ask for anything (upgrade your computer, give you new stationery, etc.). Try to solve such issues with his deputies.

But if you give ordinary female attention - "Did you catch a cold?", "You look tired ..." - it will bribe any boss. Help him find on the Internet so necessary to him the phone or give a pill from the head - and you will provide the chef an invaluable service.

Also, invite the chef to mini-corporations or "mezhdusoboychiki." Remember - your boss is first and foremost a man and he will be pleased with it, even if he only goes for half an hour.

Ksenia Ivanova , especially for the site