Perhaps you broke up with your lover or moved to live in another city, or simply there was not a suitable company - however, you do not have anyone to celebrate the New Year. To be sad about this? In no case! We suggest that you change the formulation of the question. You will not celebrate the New Year alone, but alone with the closest person in the world - with yourself. Stay in silence, disconnected from the hustle and bustle, a luxury that not everyone can. And it is not a fact that next year you will have such an opportunity, so that extracting from your present position the maximum of advantages. And most importantly - you can do whatever you want. This holiday will definitely take place according to your scenario!
- Create an atmosphere
Let you do not wait for guests, but spend on the eve of the holiday cleaning is still worth it. Wipe the floor, wipe the dust, wash the curtains, clean the mirrors and windows - in a cleanly cleaned apartment and breathe easier. Even if you do not want to decorate a large Christmas tree, decorate your home with small New Year's accessories: hang the wreaths in the room, spread out mandarins in the vases. Traditional New Year's fragrances are guaranteed to cheer you up, and orange color acts on our psyche as an antidepressant.
- Save energy
Lunching from raznosolov festive table you one to anything (and therefore, you will not get tired from many hours of cooking!). But exquisite delicacies will come in handy. Let your meal be laconic, but truly luxurious. Treat yourself only to your favorite dishes: order a sushi set in a restaurant or prepare fresh seafood, buy a pair of cakes in an elite confectionery. Extra bonus: next morning you will not have weight in the stomach.
- Treat yourself
On money saved from the organization of a magnificent feast and buying numerous souvenirs, make a gift for yourself. Buy something that you have long dreamed of, but what always seemed to you insanity, unnecessary extravagance: an amazing set of underwear, a line of cosmetics from haute couture, individual lessons of tango.
- Dress nicely
Down with shabby T-shirts and jeans! Cocktail dress and hairpins are optional (although why not) - you can fully wear cozy pajamas with teddy bears and fluffy slippers of elegant colors. The main thing that your outfit liked you yourself!
- Do as you please
If you want - watch concerts and comedies on TV, if you want - turn on your favorite music and dance, closing your eyes, and if you want - go to bed at 21:00. On this New Year's Eve you will not have to pretend, say empty toasts and do something that you do not like. You are absolutely free. Celebrate your loneliness, as you like!
- Do not do anything stupid.
But still there are several things that you definitely do not want to do, even if you really want to (then you'll regret yourself). Do not drink too many hot drinks, do not call your ex, do not suffer from a ruined youth and do not settle for an accidental company, just to not be alone.
- Write a letter of thanks to the outgoing year
List in it all the good things that have happened to you in the past 12 months. Remember all the pleasant meetings, material acquisitions, vivid feelings, unexpected joys. You'll see: in your life there are many more reasons for happiness than you thought. Such lists teach us to be grateful for things that we habitually take for granted.
- Make plans
If you want, that all that has been envisioned will come true, as much as possible concretize your desires. "I want to get married" is an overly vague wording. Write down in detail what qualities your chosen one should have, where you will live, how you will spend leisure time, etc. Such detailed desires will help you to understand better what you really want. Write down your goals in a notebook and then during the year from time to time check with them.
- Spend January 1 in a new way
If you go to bed not too late, go to the walk on the morning of January 1st. When you last walked along a completely empty and quiet main street, drank cocoa and buns in your favorite coffee shop in the center of the city in complete solitude? Frozen in the silence of the streets and houses tell you about your native city a lot. And closer to noon, fresh, rosy and cheerful, go on holiday visits to relatives and friends.
- Help someone
The best way to cheer yourself up and bring back the taste of life is to do something good for someone. Bake a cake for a lonely granny-neighbor or buy gift candy sets for children from a large family living in the neighborhood. When we disinterestedly help others, our self-esteem is growing, and our own troubles cease to seem so significant. Now we know how to celebrate the new year alone.