How to check if a man is ready to start a family?

It is commendable if the future father is interested in childbirth, reads popular literature from well-known pediatricians and thinks over the issues of child upbringing. But from the moment of conception to childbirth for as long as nine months. At this time a man needs a woman more than ever. It is considered (and rightly so) that pregnancy is a special condition of a woman. But after all, both a woman and a man give a child a life. So, in the future you should be there: to support your wife in every possible way and to fulfill her slightest whims as if on a first date. Argue is pointless! How to check whether a man is ready to create a family - the topic of the article.

Forget about selfishness

A man is very comfortable to live if his wife took over the functions of the keeper of the hearth. She quietly cleans up the apartment, erases socks and other things, prepares and cleans the dishes, makes you a massage, and then again and in the bed does not cease to pleasantly surprise. As they say, oil painting. The husband brings money into the house, providing the family, and ... often his partnering functions are limited to this. Selfishness in its pure form! And you have to struggle with him in every possible way. If you did not manage to get rid of a bad character trait before the beloved became pregnant, then it's time to do it now. After all, it is known that in the period of expectation of the child the woman becomes especially sensitive. So why not remember the first days of falling in love and again not become a gallant and considerate knight if the feeling is dulled and selfishness exceeds authority? It's time to show him your place, or rather, to give up your place in your life. Permanently!

Sex continues

It's strange, but even in the 21st century, some people are sure that with the onset of pregnancy on a sexual life, you can put a cross. It is not true. Moreover, sex can and should be done until the very birth. Of course, we will have to be more cautious, since not all the positions and places to which the couple are used are now acceptable. And if earlier in intimate relations the tone was set by the man, now, it's time to listen to the wishes of the wife. Believe me, sometimes my head hurts really ... For sure, you consider yourself to be a bed-linen master (not in the carpenter sense, but in the intimate one). But it would be better to back up your own self-confidence by reading special literature in order to imagine what can cause inconvenience, and what, on the contrary, give pleasure in such an interesting period as pregnancy. You will be surprised at how extensive the field of experimentation is. It happens, however, that the future mommy sex ceases to please. To this also be treated with understanding, but it's better to talk openly. Most likely you will be able to find a compromise. After all, desperate situations do not happen!

School of Cooking

How often do you hear from men the words: "My wife is cooking great!" They sound proud of the right choice, self-confidence and even some disregard for those whose wives are not so skilled in the kitchen. However, during pregnancy with the woman's taste receptors, miracles occur: the salted her may seem unsalted, the sweet - unsweetened. Do not make claims at once. In the end, salt is always in the salt shaker, pepper in the pepper, sugar in the sugar bowl. Just silently add the missing to taste. And even better, "wait" at the stove itself. It's not for nothing that men are considered to be excellent cooks. Look who occupies the position of chef at most restaurants. Men! So look at the culinary programs, read books on cooking, put on your apron and - forward, to the unknown tops of culinary craftsmanship. First, your efforts and experiences will be appreciated by the spouse. Secondly, it's a new experience and almost an adventure. Thirdly, it can happen that you will discover the chef's talent and from now on you will not allow a woman to cook for a kilometer. And there, you see, you will start to conduct a culinary transfer or publish a book of your own recipes. And then you will thank your wife for giving you the opportunity not only to feel like a father, but also to discover new talents in yourself. By the way, all the same applies to other household chores. Who knows, but suddenly, you like to wipe the dust and wash the floors, but you do not know about it just because you used to do a lot for your mother, and now for your wife.

You still love

Some women sometimes think that with pregnancy they lose their attractiveness. It's not like that at all! Of course, future moms are more scattered than girls in the usual state, more inattentive and unresponsive to one or other things. Nothing wrong! Pregnancy lasts only nine months, and absent-mindedness does not appear from the first minutes of conception. As for external changes, they are noticeable to people who rarely meet with yours, but not to you, who see it every single day. And even if the changes are obvious, or rather, on the face, then this too is temporary. Do not stop loving your half because your pimple popped out on her forehead or because she looks tired today? So convince the woman of this, by the way, there is absolutely nothing complicated. All this you already passed, when actively caring for the future wife.