During the selection process, all relatives, not only grandparents, but also future aunts and uncles, as well as older brothers and sisters and, naturally, parents themselves want to participate. How to choose the right name for the child, so that it not only liked all the relatives, but also fit the future owner?
Here are some tips.
Often parents learn dictionaries with names, browse the Internet, ask friends and acquaintances about the fashionable names to date, in the hope that this will help in choosing a name for their crumbs. There are many ways to choose a name - from Svyatok to choosing a name on a horoscope.
Happens, that the husband gives the chance to pick up a name for the kid to the wife. And yet, it's better when the spouses choose a name together. Some couples use this technique: they write down on the paper all the names offered by relatives and choose the name that is found more often.
During the clarification of the difficult and important issue of the correct selection of the child's name, it is necessary to remember the following circumstances:
1. The name should be easy to pronounce and harmonious. You should not choose a name long and difficult. Ideal option, when the name is easily pronounced and remembered. Naturally, the name should be combined with the child's patronymic and surname. It has long been noted that names that are difficult to pronounce, for example, Alexander Alexandrovich (because of the large number of consonant letters "ks, ndr") are used to shrink to San Sanych or even Sanych. If you choose the name Alexander, then it is better to soften his middle name, for example, Sergeyevich. A name that is difficult to pronounce can be a barrier to communication, cause embarrassment in the person with whom they communicate.
2. Common sense. Recently, such female names have been popular: Juliette, Camilla, Dominica. It should also be taken into account whether this name will be combined with the usual Russian patronymic and surname.
3. Possibility of easy formation of a patronymic. When giving a rare name to a boy, do not forget that it will later serve as the patronymic of his children. The question is, what patronymic name will come from Florian?
4. Frequency of occurrence of a name. Employees of civil registry offices know many amusing cases associated with names. For example, in one village one day they named all the girls born in 2002 Violetts (they were born 18). As a tribute to the popular in that year series.
It is desirable, that for the name it was possible to select caressing forms, for example, Dashenka, Svetochka, Igorek, Vasilek, etc. Caressing forms of names contribute to the transfer of various nuances of communication.
Also, if the name does not indicate a gender, it is better not to name children like Sasha, Zhenya, Valya. Children are always offended when boys are confused with girls and vice versa.
You give a name - you give fate. You can not give a name to a child in honor of a deceased relative, especially a tragically dead one.
Do not call a child by the name of a grandparent, because the toddler often inherits the characteristics of his relatives, because it's not a secret that bad character traits are transmitted more easily. Do not need to call your children by the name of the heroes of your favorite films, celebrities.
Boys do not need to be named after their father: Sergey Sergeevich, etc., since boys with such names often grow up capricious, unbalanced, irritable and nervous. Girls should not be called as mother, because it will not be easy for them to find a common language.
How easy it is to choose a name for someone else's child, and how difficult it is to choose it for your own. Today you can enter a double name in your passport, for example, Anna Maria. This is an exit for parents who could not agree and choose one of the two names.
Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site