How to defeat complexes

Many women fall into such situations, when they are attacked by a whole flurry of criticism, and, often, people who criticize themselves are not 100% self-confident people, each of them has its own complexes. They only assert themselves at the expense of others. And how to defeat the complexes? Usually a husband who does not have a high position, and constantly gets a dose of discontent from the boss, comes home and begins to tell his wife what she is doing, something is not right, says and does not look right, etc. And often all these comments are just fictions, not confirmed by facts. But, as a result, in a woman, the seeds of doubt begin to crop up about their person, complexes appear, because, as is known, the weak sex is very creative! And from the grains grows and becomes more insecure, the reasons for which are just a spirited husband who creates complexes for you. Still, of course, very often, and the woman herself, who holds the office of an office worker, and the same as the aforementioned man, who listens to her constant comments, the same notorious uncertainty arises.

All this may seem trivial to someone, but the victory of complexes is a big problem in life, which can cause a strong dependence on someone else's opinion. That, of course, lead to the inability to make decisions, without consulting with others, it will always seem that the interests of other people are much more significant than their own, and most importantly, a constant desire for approval from all, and these can be both close people and people completely outsiders. Living with undefeated complexes is very difficult.

Or let's take the jealous: they all just die and become permeated with the thought that the second half will definitely find a better man, sometimes it even seems to them that the satellites purposefully seek this best replacement.

I must say that women are very strongly prone to onslaught of criticism and in consequence, the appearance of uncertainty in them, but also men are often infected because they do not have immunity from this virus. Victory is won by fear, and infects with uncertainty.

The epidemic of complexes, this is the only way to call this problem, all people are prone to this disease, and this turns out to be a real cycle, men criticize women, women men and even our children learn to sting their loved ones as painfully as possible.

How to escape from this misfortune, because with its presence the nation simply can not be called psychologically healthy. And all this can lead to much greater problems, since more often people who have complexes are aggressive and take out their anger not only through verbal abuse.

Teach yourself not to pay attention to frequent criticism, or to allocate from it rational grains and try to change something in yourself, but keep self-confidence !!

Ksenia Ivanova , especially for the site