I want to live alone

Do not you think the headline is not a fiction, the question is posed exactly: "I want to live alone." Pay attention: not "lonely", namely "one". We all used to think that loneliness is a forced measure. Loneliness is perceived by most people as something negative. To be one is bad, wrong and annoying. For greater persuasiveness, it is necessary to say in syllables, chanting like a mantra: - "not-pra-vil-no."

Relationships in themselves do not guarantee you happiness, and loneliness does not guarantee trouble, of course if you treat it adequately. Speech, as you might have guessed, in this article will not be about the lack of acquaintances and friends or about the orphan complex. Not at all! It will be about the most important evil on the planet - about men. Any communication with them implies a problem a priori: It is not - you are sad, He is - it is difficult ...

In the fact that a man is missing in your life, you can find a huge number of positive points. You just need to. So, He is not, and ...

Now finally you can do things that have been postponed for some time afterwards. Now you have the same sacramental "free evening". You can no longer rack your head in the morning picking up clothes, so that you do not hit your face in the dirt on your date, and that at work it is comfortable in it and comfortable. In your purse, you can no longer wear an arsenal with weapons for coloring, in case he drags you to a restaurant. You can relax with a clear conscience and wear the clothes you want, and not to satisfy other people's aesthetic needs. It's so cool to be yourself!

Now you can finally sleep in your favorite pajamas with rabbits - cubs - sponge Bob, and not in a silky cold nightie. You can now spread out on the bed as your heart desires, or even throw your foot on the second pillow. Everything is just for your comfort! And by the side no one snores!

On the day off, you can sleep as much as you can fit in, you can lie in bed for a long time, without jumping, to bring coffee to the faithful and urgently build breakfast for two persons. It is possible with a clear conscience to luxuriate in a cozy nest of pillows and blankets. The nest can be strewn with magazines or books, or (oh, horror! A man such, should not under any circumstances!) Soft toys. You can get up and wander around the house with a haircut on your head "I fell off the hayloft" and nothing. Nobody will say anything.

The more you do not need to get frustrated by the fact that he no longer calls and does not write sms. You no longer need to break your poor head in search of an answer to the question "Why is the phone of the called subscriber turned off or is it out of the network access area ???" Now you do not need to think about the fact that the nasty voice of the aunt informing that the subscriber is unavailable insult you beautiful.

Now you can go, finally, to the most lame cafe self-service and order yourself the biggest second breakfast, which, as a man thinks, simply can not physically fit in such a charming lady like you.

You can afford to eat after eighteen zero-zero and score on charging. And you can, on the contrary, do yoga or go on a diet, and you will not be distracted from her hiking with Him in the restaurant. In a word, the state of your body concerns only you. Want to lose weight - lose weight or if you want, then calmly recover. No one will say a word to you.

It is no longer necessary to plan a menu for two at work, so that at the end of it jump to the store and jump in huge packages to go home. You can eat yogurt for dinner.

Just remember that in any state you can find both bad and good. In love, you can be unhappy, but you can enjoy loneliness. Everything depends on you.