How to diversify family sex life. It's very simple, you need only a little imagination and you will succeed. Gradually prepare your partner, ask him if he would like a new one in your intimate relationships. If you start playing with it dramatically, it can be overwhelmed by your behavior. And it will not do you good, but only to the detriment of it. The most extravagant in sexual family relationships is role-playing. They came in our time from ancient times, in the era of governesses and gardeners, noble blood of men, very much loved by governesses and maids. And their spouses preferred plumbers and gardeners.
A man by himself is a conqueror, and he wants to conquer everything and everything. Give him this opportunity, let him begin to conquer you, and you resist him. Imagine that you are a young girl who wants to be seduced by a man. He can be in the role of a leader, and you in the role of a pioneer. Either he is your cousin who came from afar, and you are a noble maid. He can be a cool macho, and you are a very modest girl with pigtails. If you want a fairy tale, then he can be a prince, and you are a Cinderella.
You can do the exact opposite, you will start seducing your own husband. Imagine him in the role of a programmer with glasses and a stretched sweater that came to you to install an antivirus in the computer, and you are such a little bitch in a transparent robe and stockings, in chic lingerie, sit next to him and start seducing him. Either you are a teacher, and he is your student. Or another option, you are the boss, he is your humble subordinate.
And now you are in the role of a woman of easy virtue, who takes money for her body. Turn yourself into a courtesan: bright makeup, defiantly short skirt, open chest. You will execute all his orders in bed, so you can reveal the secret desires of your spouse. Either you were fined by a traffic police officer for traffic violations, and you do not have the money to pay it off. So you have to start seducing the traffic police officer.
Very often women at least at the level of the subconscious want to be imbued with power. Feel the male strong hands squeezing you and sex without preludes, but almost with an animal instinct. A man really wants to feel this role of a man who is overwhelmed by passion, and a woman refuses to him. In this case, the main thing is not to play, or you can feel yourself and the truth is a victim.
After your general decision (I want to pay attention to the word "general") to engage in role-playing games, you prepare for them carefully. Think about the appearance, the interior, if you have children, then it is better to send them to visit your grandparents, so it will be much easier for you to enter the role. Turn off the phones and tell all your friends that you would not be disturbed at all this evening.
So, you are prepared to choose which game to play, start to get used to the role, just do not plan every word at the beginning, otherwise it will be boring and not interesting, as in cheap serials, or in German porn films. Turn on the pleasant music, light the candles, you can fill the room with special flavors for excitement. And have a nice evening!
You can play around with your husband in a different way, rent a hotel room, lure him there with the help of a tempting SMS. And there to arrange for him an unforgettable evening, and you can do it even at lunchtime, so it will be more interesting. Play your role to the end, not paying attention to his stunned mind and a bunch of questions.
In the future these games will become much more interesting for you. They will play a huge role in your continued marital life. Even conflicts you can solve with the help of these and other games. Imagine if, after another scandal, you meet your husband with the face of a servant. Which is ready for anything, if only the owner forgave her.
Listen to your man, as he describes his reluctance to do anything. If he says that he is tired of spinning like a squirrel in a wheel, but he just wants to fall and not move. So become a lioness in bed, and let him lie and enjoy.
Either he works as a high-ranking official, and he is tired of his everyday image.
"Lower" him in office, let him be a subordinate.
He was tired of the daily situation in the house, arrange for him the hotel room in the house.
If he has a complex from what you had before men were. Pretend to be a virgin, let him seduce you.
But everything in this life can be spoiled, even such romantic moments. Remember a few rules so that this does not happen:
- Do not clench yourself and do not pinch your partner; - Perceive his suggestions on the variety of your sexual relations with pleasure; - Never laugh during a role-playing game; - Do not criticize yourself or his; - Behave uninhibited; - Awake a child, shoddy and at the same time, without blemish; - Drop all the complexes.