Of course, to explain to her friend that the situation is not at all rosy, it's not at all easy. To begin with, let's understand, by what signs did you decide that the guy does not like your friend? In fact, there are a variety of situations, so you can never cut from the shoulder. After all, you can explain that the guy does not like the girl and convince her of this, but then it turns out that everything is completely wrong. For example, there are young people who rarely talk about love, behave very coldly, but at the same time try to do everything for a loved one and provide the best. Therefore, in such situations it is not necessary to get involved in relationships and try to correct something. In this article we are talking about those situations where a young man changes a girl, uses it, offends and offends. Here in this case, really need help. But it's worth warning right away: many women do not want to realize anything, help is perceived as hostile and simply alienated from people who want to save them from unhealthy relationships. So remember this and realize that you are taking a risk.
But if you are still ready for this, then let's try to decide how to explain to friends that the guys do not like them. First, you should never look for a young person compromising, and then retell or show them to your girlfriend. Remember that a guy can always figure out how to justify himself and a woman in love with him will believe, and you will prove to be a bitch who tries to spoil their relationship. Even if you saw the very unpleasant situations with the participation of your friend's boyfriend and you know a lot about him, you do not need to retell it in all colors. You must make sure that the girl herself has drawn conclusions and made her own decisions. Therefore, you need to make her analyze the situation. For this it is necessary to try calmly and unobtrusively to reason with it. Try to tell her stories from life that are similar to those that happen to your girlfriend.
If the young man is not faithful and changes the girl, try to draw her attention to the behavior of the guy with other girls. But do not tell her that the guy is guilty. Better, in the case when you are in the company, note that some girl is clearly interested in her young man, and then offer to argue how he relates to this. And do not insist that he will flirt. Rather, say that he will not react, but for interest offer to observe his behavior. If a person has passion, he becomes less sensitive and more attentive. In addition, women are difficult to hide their essence. Sooner or later your friend will find out about something and ask you for advice. In this case, do not immediately call and denigrate the young man. But, in no case, you do not need to reassure her and say that everything will be fine. Try to make your girlfriend think sensible. Talk to her about whether she has noticed anything else that can talk about cheating in his behavior. Also hint to her that someone somewhere said that this young man is quite windy. The main thing is never to express too negative thoughts from yourself and do not persuade her of anything. You can advise and reassure, but never try to change your mind. When we love, we protect even those who are completely wrong. Therefore, if you are too zealous to persuade, then in return you will get a serious rebuff and resentment. This applies to all situations, not just the one when the young man changes.
For example, in the case when a guy is openly using your girlfriend, also do not constantly tell her about it. It is better to pay more attention to relationships in other pairs. Tell her that this and that young man always pays for his girlfriend, makes her gifts, tries to help her. Hint that this is exactly the expression of love and support, and other relationships are not entirely normal. But at the same time, one can only subtly, casually and occasionally hint at a relationship with her young man. If you bend the stick - the girlfriend will be offended and will make completely wrong conclusions. And yet, in any case, do not give her a reason to think that you like her boyfriend. Remember that the mind, clouded by love, does not know how to think sensibly and what you do to it for good can be perceived extremely negatively.
The hardest and most difficult case is when a guy hits your girlfriend. In this case, girls almost never admit this, in every way deny what is happening and protect their beloved. Then you yourself decide how seriously you are ready to go. Maybe it will happen that saving a friend will lead to the end of friendship. Therefore, decide if you are ready to sacrifice your communication, even if you are not sure of a 100% positive result. In this case, you must act more openly and directly convince your friend that it is abnormal and you can not live like that, and if necessary, even devote her family and friends to the situation. Of course, she can take it as a betrayal, but once, when she realizes everything, and she realizes what you have done for her and what you sacrificed, you will reconcile and the girl will be very grateful to you for such a sacrifice. Just in this situation, you need to remember that the most important thing is not her attitude towards you, not even your friendship, but the safety and health of your girlfriend.