Since childhood, many of us have been told that a woman is a complaisant, non-initiative, and always in a "waiting mode": when she gets acquainted with, when they make a date, when they kiss her for the first time and when they are offered to marry. Glory to heaven, obsolete prejudices have sunk into oblivion. Modern women have become wiser and cunningly using the whole arsenal of their charm in order to create favorable conditions for the beginning of relations.
Studies by psychologists show that two-thirds of acquaintances happen on the initiative of women, while men do not even suspect that they have fallen into a "trap". A skilled temptress deftly uses nonverbal bells and whistles: an easy smile, a sharp look, stroking hair or intriguing clothing. The main guarantee of success is the skill of seduction. But how to get a man to take the first step, if the skill is not sharpened? Here, only practice will help you! Well, a few tips from psychologists will prompt how to provoke the chosen one to turn from a shy quiet to a determined alpha male.6 ways to get a man to take the first step towards
- Talk with your body. Pose, gestures, position of hands, feet, head - all this is the language of the body, which is eloquent any carefully thought out words. Relax and "tie a conversation" body. A man should see an open pose (no crossed legs and arms), a flat back, slightly tilted toward the head (a pose of interest) and a confident position of the hands. It is the hands that often give out excitement. Take their action - play with a glass, touch the tempting gesture of hair or face.
- Tempt clothes. How to get a man to take the first step with the help of clothes? Should I be more naked? No! Deep neckline and skirt-belt may be the reason for vulgar harassment. To tempt a modern man has a better chance of a woman dressed in a nun's outfit. And if the strict, but elegant clothes will be supplemented with a playful detail in the form of hints of lace or a skirt cut in the folds, you will definitely be able to tickle his "basic instinct".
- Touch the look. A glance is a weapon of mass destruction. Well, since you need not a mass of men, but only one, then look only at him, and only with an exciting half-smile. A playful-shy look is a true art. For a few seconds, hold your gaze on the man's face, hair and lips. Take your eyes shyly and again (but this time bold), touch it with a look.
- Be touched by feelings. If the man has already paid attention to you, fix the effect by a sudden touch, which can be "organized" during the fall of an object or ask the chosen one to give you any thing within the radius of his access. Excite in him feelings "accidental" touch - curiosity, attraction, admiration. Feelings are very intimate.
- Take weakness. How much in the female weakness of horsepower! Allow them yourself, and then weakness can become a force that can make a man take the first step. Declare a woman in herself - fragile, needing protection and assistance. Create a situation for the "feat", let your hero feel close to you important and necessary. Let him become in your eyes a superman or at least a gentleman.
- Flirt with instincts. Awaken in the man the instinct of the hunter. Let him at once feel that he has subdued you and will decide that he is the best. In the next episode, briefly switch your interest and let other men surround themselves with attention. Any man by nature is a conqueror. Let your ancient instincts be realized, and he will want to achieve you. In addition, he will be flattered to become an elected woman who enjoys success with men.