The main thing you need to remember is that your lover is their little son, who will forever be their child, and you are a potential enemy, because you take them to the child they have invested so much in. Therefore, you can be treated and not as friendly as you expect, but you need to remember several rules that will prove that you are worthy of it.
First, when going on a visit, forget for one evening about all the catchy and defiant subjects of your wardrobe, as well as a bright make-up and manicure, too, will not be appropriate at such a meeting. The first acquaintance is a responsible step. But you should not go beyond the usual clothes. Put on your favorite blouse and jeans, or sarafan, but remember - they should not look defiant! You need to feel confident and your clothes should support you!
Secondly, you must remember that you are going to a meeting of his parents, and you need to behave decently. Before the door, inhale, smile, and say "Good afternoon! ", At the door, saying goodbye, you can exhale, and all this time you should proudly keep your back straight, smile, communicate and do not forget about the rules of etiquette.
Thirdly, always remember that your companion chose you precisely because you are you, so stay the same this evening. If you've been dating for a long time, you know a lot of stories about his family, and you're almost familiar with all of them in absentia, so do not worry - you already know something about them, and this can help you find common topics for conversation! But the main thing is to remain yourself, cheerful and relaxed, easy and attentive, and success will necessarily come.
So, you stand in front of the threshold of his home, you have an excellent view and you are set for a good time. If you came alone, and the guy is waiting inside, greet each other decently! Seeing his parents, smile and let the guy introduce you to each other. Getting to know your mother and you is a very important step.
Tell me that you are happy to meet the parents of such a wonderful guy! And if the occasion for your acquaintance was his birthday - it would be appropriate to congratulate your mother and a bouquet of flowers. Let the guy find out what she likes best.
Entering the house, do not immediately consider all the little things, and ask why they are and where. It is better to look after what really interested you, and what you understand, say that the house is very cozy, and if they have some kind of pet, then this is an excuse to catch on a new topic of conversation. But do not immediately spread everything about your life, past personal life is better to bypass the tenth roads in general, and if his mother ask - it's better politely to steal clear, saying that it's inconvenient for you to talk about this and maybe this will be more appropriate next time. Do not think that it just became interesting to her, she looks out for all your sides, and it's better to see something not very good, she should not be given.
Communicating with his parents, remember that they are older than you and probably do not understand nano-technologies. Do not start a conversation on the topic of a very narrow circle of understanding, because this is your favorite subject of scientific research. Do not use youth and spoken slang - it will not be very polite. And also, even if you are keen on collecting quotes of famous people - do not use them for dinner, it is unlikely it will be appropriate.
It will not be bad, to talk about your hobbies, childhood dreams, favorite places in the city and how you like to spend the weekend, unless it's certainly not a rest in front of the TV. Tell me, where did you study and in what interesting cities there were, maybe you traveled, or have it in plans. Parents like to learn about future plans, because if a person has a goal, then he will live something seeking! But do not get carried away, ask your mother what was interesting in the childhood of your boyfriend, and believe me, she has a lot of funny stories! And do not tell your parents immediately about the wonderful plans for their son, even if he also approves of it! This time, act like just his girlfriend, who has everything ahead of her son!
At the table it is advisable to try each dish and each time to praise that sorceress who speaks so perfectly! It is not necessary at this moment to say something to the water "And my grandmother ...". Remember that to hear good reviews about your work will be pleasant to any person!
At the end of the dinner, we offered to help remove from the table, this will demonstrate that you are not lazy and sensitive, and these are important qualities for creating relationships and families in the future.
Saying goodbye, thank for such a pleasant time that you spent in their house, say that now you see in whom your guy is so smart, polite, or something like that. If they tell you that they were happy to see you - you can rest assured that you liked his parents! And this means that the first acquaintance with his mother was successful, and you did everything right! But try not to meet his mother for at least a month, it will help to gain a foothold in her creation of a good idea about you, and she will be supportive even if something goes wrong at the next meetings.