Of course, it's not a secret that it's best to start a relationship with a guy you know well or who lives close to you. In this case, it will be much easier for you to find out everything about each other, all the pros and cons of your partner and in general make a conclusion - do you need this person. It is for this reason that look closely at how best you can for the guys that surround you (classmates, fellow students, just neighbors). If among them somebody causes you obvious sympathy, try to start communication more closely, that would recognize this guy from all sides. For example, what is easiest, meet a guy from your school or ask them to let you know your mutual friends. If there are no such candidates among your circle, then it is worthwhile to look for a guy on the opposite territorial side. So how to find your loved one, with whom you want to build a serious relationship? In the first, turn to understand for yourself that there is nothing negative in the fact that the girl first takes the initiative in getting to know the guy. Your initiative is just provoking the guy to get acquainted, because how not to twist, and the significant part of building relationships, all the same, depends on the man. Your main task is to make the first positive impression on the guy, to interest him, to position yourself as an interesting person. This is all, will prompt him, to go to you for a response and open up in communication. And as a conclusion, proceeding from everything, this will form the basis of your further relations.
So, where and how to find yourself a guy, where to look for them, if you want not just meetings under the moon, but a serious relationship? This can be done anywhere. To begin with, start visiting places where most of the guys (will be where to choose). Sports clubs, playgrounds, various sections. For example, it can be martial arts, dancing, playing the guitar, computer circle, travel companies. Here there should not be any special problems with acquaintance, since you already have will, not will, to bind what is not, but still a common interest. The main thing, be sure to think carefully about which of the man's hobbies you could boldly share. By the way, at the liked guy, always, it is possible to ask the help in this or that matter. Here's to you and the reason, and its results. You can even join the sports games - go to a couple of matches on football or basketball. In such places, you are unlikely to be deprived of men's attention. Do not forget to pick up a friend. Together will be much more fun, and the council will never interfere.
Also, to expand your opportunities, do not forget about places like clubs, discos, cafes and bars. Having worked well over your appearance, immediately go to one of the above mentioned places. The very relaxing atmosphere and optimistic mood in these places provoke and contribute to an immediate acquaintance.
If you are not a fan of noisy places, then for you there is a more peaceful and modern way of meeting - the worldwide network. Nowadays, getting acquainted, through the Internet, has become a long time not a curiosity, but even on the contrary gained the status of an indispensable assistant in the search for his second half. Also this kind of dating has very promising pros. Firstly, during communication, you can clearly in your subconscious, make out an idea of your interlocutor, thereby making certain conclusions for yourself whether it is worth continuing communication with the premises for a further meeting in real life or best all to stop. Secondly, you can communicate for a long time, without urging, each other, discussing, any topics and sharing your interests at ease. Having thoroughly studied the profiles of different guys (and photographs in the first place), you can choose your relatives by your own interests and views on people's lives. A common love for music, films, books - this is all a good indicator, for a basis on which you can build quite good relations. Also, such communication can show the whole creative nature of the person's soul, on the other side of the monitor. His life, principles, beliefs, tastes, which you do not immediately know about a person, when you meet, just on the street.
By the way, about your questionnaire also carefully take care. More information about yourself, more chances. And do not forget to update the photo albums. Your photos should "tell" about your life, emphasizing how you live. How active are you, how and where, you rest, what are you keen on.
For its purposes, use well-known sites, such as: VKontakte, Facebook, Classmates, My World. These are the most popular social networks, where you can find your soul mate without any problems. Communicate virtually and do not forget about the meeting in real life.
By the way, do not be afraid to experiment and choose. Always take phone numbers from the guys and, as far as possible, leave your number. The more, in your list of guys, the higher your chances to choose one, worthy. Do not get hung up on individual personalities, as long as there is a choice, do not miss it, so that you do not regret it later.
And the last. Before choosing your own place for dating, think about it and decide for yourself which type of guy you like best. And in accordance with this, be sure to add to the places of your searches, such, where you can often meet a guy with these qualities.
And for yourself remember - in the first place of your pledge to success, is your attitude to yourself. You should always look attractive, emphasizing your dignity. Do not act like a bitch and never be imposed. Be open, but at the same time keep your special "zest". You will see that success is guaranteed to you. After all, the answer to the question: "How to find yourself a guy and where to find them" - is embedded in yourself. Guys themselves will be in the queue, that would pick up a key to your heart. Your task will be only to choose the worthiest of the worthy.