If the problem is in the womb
First of all, it is always necessary to understand your relations. Think, maybe your half is missing something in your intimate relationship? How often are you alone? Do you follow yourself? Or maybe you are too modest and can not be liberated in sex? Perhaps your young man would like some variety, but you are so constrained in bed?
Many girls will say that they are not going to repeat everything that happens in such films for adults. It's clear that no one has the right to make you do everything that, it would seem, so easily, the young women make in such films. Also, you always need to remember that this is just a movie, let it be a bit unusual, not as often shown on television, but still, a film. All this is a game, a lot of specialists, makeup artists, cosmetologists also work on these actors. You probably noticed that very often the bodies and figures of people in such films look practically perfect. Believe me, porn actors also have a lot of shortcomings, with which professionals perfectly cope with the help of special cosmetics. They are also real people, and they can also pop out a pimple, cellulite stretch marks.
Many psychologists say that in sex there is no shameless, even if both partners have some of their personal predilections. The main thing is that it is liked by both. Reconsider your behavior, talk with your loved ones, perhaps the reason that he watches similar films for adults, there is some kind of your stiffness of relations with a partner. And perhaps, your young man himself is embarrassed to tell you about his hidden fantasies.
Try to invite your guy to watch movies of such a plan together. This will help liberate both of you, remove some stiffness between you, give you a special romantic mood.
What if the pair refuses to share movies?
It happens that in intimate relationships you have everything perfect, and you will find out that your boyfriend likes to pass his leisure time while watching similar films. Naturally, the girl has a panic. What is she doing wrong? Maybe her boyfriend is crazy? Maybe, everything is not as good as it seemed, maybe girls like him more from similar films than she? Before you have not yet managed to score your head with unnecessary bad guesses, it's worth talking to your man. Why does he do this, maybe he does not like something? If you are sure that your intimate life is proceeding normally, then he probably will not answer you. Most likely he watches these movies nepotomu that he is a pervert or he mnogoshensheny girls on the screen, not you. Usually men can watch porn videos to later diversify their intimate life with you. And skoreevsego, he is ashamed to tell you about it. It's a puzzling fact that if viewing such a video has a systematic character, this may already be an indicator of some dependence and in that case, it is better to contact a psychologist or sex therapist. It is advisable to support your young man and visit a specialist together.
If you are not ready to accept such a passion for your young man
Often it is still difficult for girls to understand why her boyfriend is watching porn. "If everything is in order in our personal life, why does it do this?", You can say. First of all, it is necessary to realize that your loved one is a man. And whether you like it or not, he will always look at other women, evaluate them. He will like such films, and nepotomu, that potentially he would like to change, but because he lives a man's beginning. And he will look at the women of others not because you do not like him something, but because, unfortunately, or fortunately, such is nature. Naturally, everything is in reasonable measures. It's not that your man does not miss a single skirt and flirts with everyone.
The fact that your guy sometimes looks porn movies, believe me, there's nothing to worry about. On the contrary, it can significantly diversify your personal life. And it's better if he does it with you, and not with someone else.
If a guy goes to a vaticup club
Some of the girls refer to such campaigns okay, some do not like it, and someone himself buys tickets to his male vystrigiz club. If you treat women who are negative about this, first try to calm down and not dramatize the events. He is with you, he loves you, and went to a strip bar to relax again and feel himself in a masculine setting. Of course, if you still have such hikes very unpleasant, talk to him, explain why you are hurt by this. And in turn, do not forget to keep track of yourself. Pamper yourself and your beloved with new erotic lingerie, be it-the-hearted, take the initiative. Sign yourself on the dance or strip-plastiku.Ochen popular for today is a kind of dance, as a half-dance. This is a pretty new kind of dance, very similar to strip-plastic, involves exercises nasheste, erotic movements with fitness elements. First of all, your young man will be very pleased with your choice. And then you can pamper your beloved with your dances, your figure and sports training. Guaranteed it will bring to your life new sensations and impressions.
In general, learn to love yourself and your body. Look after the suck, play sports, do not overeat. Even if you have children, no one has selected uvass the right to be beautiful and well-groomed. If you want your man not to look at other women, start with yourself and the result will definitely surprise you. It is always necessary to remember that men love with their eyes, and even after ten years of marriage, cooking dinner in the kitchen, do not forget about your appearance and grooming. Listen to your young man, and do not take his comments on other ladies with hostility.
Of course, your young man should also understand you and guess that you may be uncomfortable with some of his behavior. Explain why, talk to him. Come together to a common denominator, learn to listen to each other's hearing. Find a common language, look for compromises, so as not to hurt a friend for sore spots and complexes.