How to forget about treason and start a new life

The myth that ordinary treason - it's just an affair with a length of one night. Flirting is not always harmless, as it seems at first glance. This is a game with fire, which leads to quite unpleasant consequences. On the unfaithfulness of a beloved man is learned in many ways: his majesty the case, all the well-wishers well-liked - in any case this is a whole gamut of feelings - succeeding each other. In any case, the question "Can not be!" Changes, on "What to do and how to live with this?" And we are turning from a mistress - destiny into a victim - a villain. In any case, if you decide to keep a family - then you want to learn to forget about treason and start a new life.

To forget about the change, experts in Feng Shui recommend starting a new life with permutations in the house, depending on the sides of the world, useful and geopathic zones, energy flows.

Learn to be honest with yourself. We used to think about ourselves in an indifferent manner - in a faded dressing gown, forgetting to say hello from the morning with a comb. "We can, we are at home, I have a family, my husband and I love this." Listen to your feelings: unpleasant sensations are a sure sign that this sphere needs changes.

Starting a new life you need to learn to live here and now. This will help to enjoy every minute of life objectively respond to all events, from the point of view of the past (which we want to change), but the present. It is necessary to start a new one with one main conviction that the past has rendered you invaluable service, thus we get rid of useless judgments that have appeared in the past. It is in the past that the causes of today's failures lie.

A new life is not an insult to oneself, a loved one, a feeling of guilt, self-pity, and all this only lowers self-esteem. Learn not to scold yourself. After all, everything that we reinforce within ourselves - only increases, both positive and negative. Any aggression leads to a deplorable result.

Learn to set goals and achieve them. But while striving for the new, be sure to learn to enjoy the present. Otherwise, waiting for change risks becoming an annoyance about what is still not there or the achievement of goals is too slow. And with such a mood, a new life threatens to turn into an old one.

How to forget about change and start a new life, everyone chooses in own way, but, alas, to change in life parts it is impossible. First of all, you need to start with yourself and remember that you need to start small and then even the most daring dreams are necessarily implemented.

Ksenia Ivanova , especially for the site