Error.
Every man convicted of treason, up to the last, claims that his criminal connection is just an unfortunate mistake, even if the mistress exists in his life for more than a year. You think, I made a mistake with someone who does not exist!
But sometimes, indeed, a man commits an act, which he sincerely regrets. Usually this is a one-time random connection, a sudden betrayal, which he did not plan and did not want. The very fact of such a betrayal makes a man suffer from conscience. Sex with a stranger on a business trip, during a corporate party, casual acquaintance - it does not matter where or how it was.
If the relationship ends, before it starts, the man experiences a feeling of guilt, it was just a mistake.
Revenge.
Before you reproach a man for treason, you should carefully look at yourself. And did not I become the reason that my beloved went "left"?
Unreasonable reproaches, constant jealousy induce a man to commit such an icky act in order to be blamed for that.
Sometimes a woman herself does not differ in virtue, excessively loves a man's attention, flirts, and maybe changes herself. A man can not pretend that he knows about treason, but choose such a way of revenge, which is understandable.
A crisis.
All of us at a certain moment feel tired from any relationship. Zaetat life, oppress problems, there is a chill. Someone in such cases tries to talk and change something, but someone simply changes each other.
Tired of the relationship, the man is looking for new sensations on the side. Non-committal connections give detente and distraction from routine. Sometimes this behavior becomes a habit.
Bad company.
No matter how ridiculous this may sound, many of the actions of a man are made out of solidarity. His friend was changed by his wife, which he told on the next "bachelor party". Friends decide to help the unfortunate, distract him with a pleasant female company. From the same sense of solidarity on such a get-together wives can change even those in whose plans it is completely not included.
It also happens that in some circles have a mistress almost a mandatory rule, without which a man can not feel equal. The circle of communication obliges us to do many things, however sad, betrayal is sometimes included in the notion of success.
Loving.
It happens that a man is simply a womanizer. It is difficult for him to remain indifferent to beautiful women, he can not keep himself in hand and therefore changes. Usually this behavior is noticeable at once, this character trait does not appear out of nowhere and suddenly. If your favorite womanizer, you probably know this and consciously went on a relationship with him. To remake such a man is very difficult.
Stopgap measure.
Sometimes a man gets himself a temporary mistress, pushing more from his needs, rather than obeying a sudden impulse. For example, you decided to go to study for long courses, on a business trip or to have a child. At some point, a lack of sex will do its job, and a man can solve the problem in this way.
It also happens that a woman takes too much care of her beloved, treats him more like a mother. And who wants to sleep with his mother? Men find on the side what they do not get in other ways.
Uncertainty.
From a certain age, men are insecure in their own strength. With age, they begin to doubt their attractiveness and that they can cause interest in women. They are afraid of losing their male power. Sometimes coldness in marriage makes a man think that he is no longer worth anything if his personal life is so boring.
In such cases, he seeks not for a new love, but for evidence that he can still like and satisfy. It can last a long time, until the self-confidence and warm relations with the wife return.
Great love.
The worst thing is when a man changes not just for that, not by mistake, not by calculation, but by love. A wife can keep it in many different ways, for this most women have enough opportunities, but you can not order your heart. In such cases, a man is unlikely to divorce, but changes, because he loves another.
Solve this situation will help only time. Love on the side can pass, and can last for years. Sometimes it is possible to save both marriage and love, and sometimes nothing.
There is an expression - who is warned, he is armed. Knowing the reasons why your man can go to treason, it is easier to control him and adjust himself and his behavior. If you understand that your man has enough reasons for treason, but your relationship means a lot to you, you can correct the situation and prevent a final break. If the treason has already occurred, you still have to analyze the situation and decide whether to forgive or not, what to do and what to do. And the main thing is how to prevent this from happening again.
It is important to know that not all men are changing what everyone else says about it. And not all women push men to adultery. Strong relationships and sincere love are able to remain faithful to each other for many years and even for a lifetime.