There are several types of wife's behavior that lead to a depressed state of the husband.
Wearing a wife like rottenness for the bones of a husband, understand that the wife is cutting, the husband is not going to get better, but on the contrary will slowly wither and eventually this is the type that is drinking (these are those that have a complex about the appearance ), and those who do not like the complex and like women, go to treason, where, as they think, they are loved like that. But while men are deceived, because sometimes the cause of his wife's quarrels is some nuance of the wrong actions of the husband towards his wife. But it happens that the wife, seeing that something is wrong in her husband, closes and just does not tell him that, but considering that he is guilty and lives with it, for many years. The anger that has accumulated, she is poured on him, into a quarrel, and the husband does not even know what his fault is.
In this case, you can solve this problem at the beginning, just in a confidential conversation and try to understand each other. But in this conversation, the understanding of the husband plays an important role, it is not for nothing that the man is entrusted with the role of lord in the family and it is he who makes the offer to the woman, therefore he is a strong link, and the wife is only his addition. The wife should only allow her husband to mold an assistant from him according to him.
A woman is only then happy when she is loved, and when she feels needed and useful. That's what too often leads a person to treason, this is selfishness, a consumer attitude. When a husband wants his wife to fulfill all his whims, while not seeing what his half-wife needs. A wife who loves her husband tries to indulge him, but without finding an answer in it and for his needs and needs, ceases to be the one that was so sweet to her husband.
And the husband is no longer finding in it the satisfaction of his needs (agree this is clearly a consumer attitude, because marriage is work and the work of both) simply begins to look for the missing on the side, and this results in betrayal to his wife, who is in fact flesh from his flesh. But in this betrayal with those women, he will not find rest until he changes his attitude to those around him and learns to give, not just to take. There is one more aspect in family relations that is the bed of love.
Many men complain about their own wives that they do not know how to do anything and that they are not interested in them. And exhibiting this cause go on treason, while for some reason that without experiencing the slightest remorse. Hmm, it's worth thinking about dear men, husbands, are not you the one who should be a teacher for everything in your wife? Ask yourself this question and reflect. And what if a wife should learn from her neighbor all the skills of love, then to please her husband?
Therefore, I want to support you dear wife, do not despair and remember the main thing that you do not sin and lead a pious way of life. And somewhere in the depths of the soul, even the most hard-hearted and cruel heart of a man appreciates you and not one woman of easy virtue can not be compared for a husband, with a pious wife. Men somehow think (which, by the way, is a great misconception) that they can be changed, they imagine, they can not imagine what pain they cause, to their wife.
And does the wife like this husband (trained as a rag) from whom, like a lascivious wife, smells of mud, because fornication he is equally dirty and disgusting, whether it is the fornication of his wife, whether it is her husband's fornication. And here's what I want to tell you dear husbands: Love your wives, teach your wives, and this sincere love and understanding by which you will teach it, will bring a huge and beautiful fruit of a happy family life. And my dear wife, I want to say to you: Listen to your husbands in meekness of character, and it will always be your master and head of the family and this will make him happy. Sincerely I hope that after reading this article you will understand a lot, for yourself.