How to get to know a man on the Internet? It would seem that this is a very easy question, to which there is a simple answer, of course, to go to a dating site and there to choose one self or a dozen men and get off acquainted. No, it's not so simple on this internet.
To begin with, you need to fill out the questionnaire correctly, you can view the profiles of women already existing on the site and learn from them how to fill out your questionnaire. For the best result, it is necessary to write briefly and interestingly, men do not like to read abstruse speech and long. Next, you need to pick up photos for exhibiting them in your profile, do not embellish them beyond recognition in editing programs, it's better that a man immediately understands who he is dealing with. But even a very terrible photo is also not worth it, men still love first with their eyes, although they say that they need a soul.
After you have submitted your data, many men will start to view you, they will write. Do not rush to the first one who will invite you on a date, talk well, at least a week with him on the site. Take a closer look at his photo, if a man did not display his photo, he is obviously married. His face has much to say about his personality. In the course of correspondence ask tricky questions, only veiled, so that he does not understand that you are calculating it. If it suits you, push him to invite you on a date.
The first date should necessarily take place in a crowded place, you do not know what kind of person he really is. There are very many maniacs on dating sites on the Internet. The first impression of a person is always right, listen to your intuition. Look closely at how he behaves, how he talks, how he looks. Some men allow themselves to come on a first date, unshaven, in dirty clothes, and even without money. They can not even invite you to a cafe, sit over a cup of coffee.
So, if you disassemble a man on the shelves, you can draw the following conclusions about the first meeting.
If, the man is not neat, then he does not respect not only himself, but also you initially.
A man uses in his vocabulary obscene language, immediately think about whether you need a man.
A man does not invite you to a cafe, referring to the fact that he does not have money, you can say with an accuracy of 100% - he is either a beggar, or greedy, or completely not polite.
You came to a cafe, you get an account, a man makes huge eyes and says that he has forgotten his wallet at home, and he offers to pay you, and he supposedly will return you money, this is 100% gigolos and liar.
A man immediately invites you to meet him at his house, or ride a car. This is a clear provocation for sexual relations. Serious relationship with such a man will not work.
The man begins to fret his first wife and all evening talks only about her. Forget about this at once, he still loves her and you will not be happy. It will be a lifetime to remember the former.
A man tells the whole evening what a beautiful daughter he has, or what a beautiful son, how they spend a wonderful weekend together. Here to you too not a place, at it the idyll, it is its children.
The man all evening talks only about himself, about work, about his hobbies. Think about whether you can live with such a person all your life, if you are only a listener and his shadow.
But not everything is as bad as in 8 points of the analysis of the man. Not all men are like that. If he is gallant, he came for the first date with flowers (with an unmarried chamomile in a cellophane bag), invited you to a cafe or a restaurant, and drove to his house on his own car or taxi. Conducted social conversations and asked you about your life, then it can be your man.
In the future, when you found your prince in this fairy tale called the Internet, cancel your profile and do not go out there more than ever, even for the sake of idle interest. Keep the happiness that you have.